So ive been dating this girl for around two weeks now, and everything seemed to be going just fine, shes been to my house,movies,and a few walks together. weve clearly expressed how we felt about eachother but agreed to take it slow cause we didnt want to rush into anything. prom was this past weekend and i figured she was going to be busy getting ready etc. so i gave her her space. Since then we havent hung out and texts have been shorter and spaced out longer. Yesterday i asked about how things seemed different, and she told me she honestly lost interest with her being busy this past weekend, she asked to stay friends and i declined the offer. Im wondering what went wrong? and How can i change this?

Many possible reasons..lets see...

1. She lost interest because she was "busy."Things probably got stale fast.

2. You say texts have been shorter. You were probably needy...it was probably her texts being shorter.

3. You asked "how things seemed different"....this is where you know things are done. Shows weakness.

4. You declined her offer to be friends. Sure you don't want to be friends after that, but you are being frustrated, emotional, and immature. No girl likes that.

5. There might be some other guy.

Whats there to do now?

Wish her the best and move on. Read up on material. You can try opening in the future. Probably not right now. No matter what, one week or two weeks from now, shes going to think you're the same person. You'll need a couple of months at least. Sorry to say this bro, but there are other girls!

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