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I am very attractive guy and when I go on a job interview I never get the job. The last job I had was with Target when I was confident I was going to get the job, I was friendly, upbeat and outgoing-I said all the right things and bam got the job.
The last interview I had was with Empress Casino and I didn't get it. I said all the right things and was extremely confident I would get the job. My voice tone was deep and slow using conversational pauses to catch her attention.
While I was in the interview I did notice her voice tone get softer and it almost sounded sexier when she said, "Uh huh!" looking at me smiling. She looked down at my hips as my legs was apart and my hands were around my pelvis area.
She went from cross legged to uncrossed legged and she sat up more alert and erect as she listened to me still saying, "Uh huh!" in the soft and sounded like sexy voice. At the end of the interview she rested her head on her chin as she looked at me while I was talking smiling. After the interview I got up and shook her hand and she gave a big friendly smile and said it was nice to meet me. I said it was nice to meet her and smiled back. My voice was deep and slow when I said it.
My theory may be that I made her feel aroused so she decide not to hire me...if she's interested then she couldn't possibly hire me because of work ethics. I said everything right and said everything positive too!
I think I make women aroused when I talk with them without even knowing I actually do it - what do you guys think>
Another instance was this one interview at a gas station that I applied for. Before the interview, I and her talked a bit to break the ice and laughed a bit about some things. I sat down in the chair and crossed my legs, I sat there confident and she sat on the table. While I talked to her she crossed her legs and swang them back and forth a bit. The interview was really quick but my voice tone was confident and I was assured I'll get the job. After the interview she told me I was a nice guy and smiled really big and shook my hand.
Is it because I'm so sexual arousing that I can't find myself a job? I am not even sure I am doing this consciously. I'm starting to feel that the people don't like me...Thanks for the feedback!
now this dilemma wouldnt happen if you looked for a MALE employer... abit simple isnt it?