| I was just looking over some of the threads on here and I must say, I think I've finally found what I'm looking for. A lot of the greats on here seem to be past chasing after women for sport, and are focused more on developing their lives in general. Although I'm still just getting into this a big part of me found it hard to commit after reading the game, because I'm not simply looking to chase after women night after night. I'm looking to grow as a man, and I know that while women occupy my thoughts about 75% of the day, they are not my means to an end. I want nothing more than to get the most out of my life, travel, try new things, meet new people, and eventually find an amazing woman to settle down and start a life with. I think the best way to put it is, I'm in pickup not for the women but for the self development. Don't get me wrong though, women are great! Along the way I hope to enjoy many gorgeous women, but I want to do so without looking at it all as a science, or feeling the need to take everything someone says as a test or a challenge. I'm a laid back guy, I feel like I'd have to over analyze and change that. Which I know would be counter productive because it's been one of the things that had helped me with women before I started learning the pickup arts. Anyway guys just wanted to say good job with the forum, and I look forward to learning a lot more from it.
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