i have been getting message from my first gf (whilst afc) she screwed me up big time weve talked and ive forgiven her but not forgotten what she did, anyways i ve been talking to her over the last few days, shes now married with 2 kids and shes told me she wishes she never got married or had kids and i ve got the feeling shes about to do something stupid, and i think her contacting me may have started it off and now im feeling guilty, shes told me all her husband does is go to work or play with his car he spends no time with her or the kids. i ve got a feeling shes gonna leave her husband and maybe leave her kids behind or even worse and all she keeps saying is that she deserves whats coming to her, question is do i get involved if so do what? at the moment im not involved but should i get involved but rthen i dont want to be the bad guy and most importantly its none of my business

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I think that there are some points to consider there:

a) She is an ex because she did something bad
b) She still hasn't changed
c) Husband and kids mean nothing to her in comparison to her own pleasure.