Are women biologically programmed to reward cruelty, evil and domination?
Of course any complaints that girls go for bad boys and jerks instantly labels one a nice guy beta males. To the extent that it is possible, I actually consider myself somewhat of an impartial outside observer. I was an omega jerk in JR and high school, and to an extent my whole psycho personality, worked and I had girls literally chasing me. A lot of it might have been self-delusion but some measures were objective. After that I was in nearly complete isolation in college. So I've never played the role of the bitter nice guy. I have NEVER done anything nice for a girl or anyone my entire life! So I think I have some claim to impartiality, and my position that my deep depression and heart anguish is purely on a metaphysical level.

I read a lot of PUA seduction Game literature. At first my logic was it pays to learn all tools of rhetoric, persuasion and oratory even if I intended to put it to different uses than PUA.

Anyway to put it at its simplest. In cavemen times women were just plaything rape slaves for the strongest ape. And that is what evolutionary psychology in chimpanzee and gorilla behavior proves. Now there might have been some brave women who defended their freedom to the death, but their selfish genes were lost to history. And the genes that all modern women have inherited is those who submit to the cruelest caveman with biggest club.

I don't know for me it is pretty hellish to live in a world where all men are sadists and all women are masochists.

According to PUA science male physical attractiveness barely matters at all, the only thing women find attractive is brute domination and sadism.

For the last year I've completely cut myself off from humanity. Who wants to live in a world of pure evil? Only evil is rewarded! Cruelty is the only virtue. What good is morality and ethics?

So I'd like an outside opinion do you feel that women are biologically programmed to reward cruelty, evil and domination?

Does the dating world going back to the new paleolithic age make life worthless?
Murdoch's theoretical journal which is the official ideology of America and thus the entire world has endorsed the evopsych worldview: The New Dating Game | The Weekly Standard

Now I'm sure no one will believe me, but this is NOT about me being a single virgin loser guy who can't get a date. More its about what kind of world we live in where evil is always rewarded. I can't live in a universe like that. Why bother to get a job and support oneself and live in brutal ruthless dog eat dog world of evil? My parents are going to throw me out in August since I wont get a job or school.

Its true I've always been kind of an anti-sexual puritan but evopsych just makes it more vicious.

I feel nothing for disgust for humanity. But thats what the Darwinian struggle for existence. Brutality is the only virtue. I'm what the Nazis would call life unworthy of life. Even if your content to be a lifelong virgin girls rewarding "bad boy" traits still affects the world you live in. I could not be more repulsed by humanity which is why I have cut myself off in complete isolation for nearly a year now.

I don't understand how the rest of humanity can endure such a world and assume its because they must ALL be blood-thirsty vampires themselves.

Although why glorify women as the victims? According to evopsych even when given freedom they will reward cruelty.

So there are no victims in this monstrous world just wolves eating wolves.

How do you endure this world? And what is your advice for me?

The Darwinian-Nietzschean struggle for existence means eat or be eaten, kill or be killed, harm or be harmed. I wish simply to neither dominate nor be dominated. But that is far too much to ask in this world on both counts.

Well in essence this IS about relationships. That is where evolutionary psychology is most obvious in daily life. While it is true I have no human relations, I'm still affected by the sexual stock market, the same way someone who owns no stock can be ruined by a crash.

Psychologists are humans like the rest of us, driven by the reptilian urges for sex and power and domination. There career choice is just there way of gaining domination in the Darwinian game. So I don't see therapists as some elite priestly caste free from evopsych. I don't want to be "fixed" into better being able to play the evolutionary game.

Since everyone here accepts the basic premises of evopsych, I ask how do YOU folks deal with it? Or do you all just accept the game, and try to be the winner? IF thats the case, then maybe your right and there can not be any dialogue between me and humanity.

I have not harmed anyone, except maybe my parents. My dad says I should be "altrusitic" and recover for my mom's sake.

First off my parents committed a massive injustice on me by bringing me into this cruel world just to satisfy that monster gene- Moloch.

Second them keeping me alive, is just their genes following their selfish interest to reproduce. I represent a major investment in their genes survival. My fall means a major decrease in their genese reproducing. So that is all there is to their so-called generosity to me. The longer they keep me fed, the longer the opportunity there is for me to pass their genes on. Granted thats a pretty miniscule chance for grandkids hiding and crying in the basement, but its higher than the chances if I starved on the street.

So what gratitude should I have to the selfish gene? The "altruism" in feeding and housing me is just the flip side of the selfishness of birthing me into an incredibly hellish universe.

Humanity wants to drive itself off a cliff. I listed my objections. Much wiser men than me have listed them in thick textbooks. Humanity wont listen to the wise men and certainly not to me. So fine. I have said my peace. Let humanity drive off the cliff, but I want no part in the adventure.

What good would having a girlfriend do me? Is the chimpanzee in me supposed to rejoice that as low as I may be in the hierarchy, I still have someone below me who I can hurt, torment, dominate and abuse?


I have no problem being driven out of the sexual marketplace. The problem is what "service" are we competing for? And it seems in the sexual market it is who can be the most brutal and cruel. Evopsych says getting a girlfriend comes down to demonstrating cruelty, domination, brutality, and sadism.


That is all I see in male-female relations and PUa science backs up my personal observations.

Women aren't exactly as helpless as you might think; and the biggest baddest, ugliest men that would kidnap women to rape wouldn't have lived very long....

In the stone age it'd have been pretty easy for some pissed off weakling to sneak up on you in your sleep and slit your throat with a piece of flint. Being big and strong helps ONLY if you can control the environment and set things to your advantage - otherwise somebody will just run, hide, wait and bash you over the head with a rock when you're not looking. Just because somebody is brutal, aggressive and can take a bit of punishment doesn't make them deadly... it just makes them a little less of an easy target, that's all.

In the real world it's the *cunning* that reign supreme - in all areas of life - and it's simply an added bonus if you have the speed, strength and stamina to pull off your daring deeds without having to convince somebody else to do them for you. I mean, who would most women want to fuck... Dumbfuck A with a rock hard body and a bad attitude that goes around pissing people off, or DeviousCunt B that isn't quite as strong or agile but knows how to get shit done without endangering their own life, or the lives of others?

And by the way, humans aren't chimps. They're more evolved than us. It's true; we have 23 pairs of chromosones, and they have 24 pairs of chromosones!

No. IMO, blame society.
I can't really say it's a mindtrick, because this aspect of the moment is a product of people attributing their own negative distractions into labels and associations.

Or, frustrated people who don't know how to live NOW ("Beta Males", "Feminists", "Negative people", "etc...") have created a lexicon of stupid jargon akin to most PUA vocabulary terms to create a false fog of societial deception.

...idiots have made the process of fucking 100x harder.
I smile, because that tells me you don't think, you DO.

And what you're DOING is observing. I like where this post is heading.
You lived your moments congruently. A plus
Hey, the "self delusion" worked, didn't it?
It got you positive results. That's all that matters.
College is a rewinding of momentum. New arena, new rules to play with.
Good.
FINALLY, I'M NOT ALONE IN BELIEF!!!!
Yes. Good sir, you understand the aetheral!
lolrapeslaves.
Chimps are good evidence of primal human behavior.
Likewise, so were the men who gave up their manly birthright.
ERASED.
Which means, ALL OF US must find our inner cruel caveman with a big swinging dick of a club. Period.
It can be hellish
Or you can make it heavenly.

Stay RIGHT NOW.
Wrong.

Brute Domination and Sadism both have their root in what women REALLY want: A powerful, strong, mega man.

Be a MAN, not a sadist.
Ok, stop.
Now you're thinking. You were going on a good tangent of momentum, but now, you've started critically thinking.

The world is not evil. The world is the world. Our emotions and critical thought processes blind us to what is, which is simply what is.

Is gravity good or evil? Are taxes good or evil?

Is DEATH...good or evil?

Think about it, but DON'T THINK about it. Realize the answer (Hint: It's neither good or evil), then ACCEPT IT as law, like gravity, and taxes, and death.
No.

What do cruelty, evil, and domination have in common?
Power.

A powerful man; a confident man; a man who doesn't think, but act; a man who doesn't care about intents, but results; a man who gets shit done, despite the circumstance; a man who creates value, and never takes anything personal; a man who does not give a flying fuck about what other people think...

...a MAN, simply put; a MAN.
Who the fuck cares? We're here now.
Murdoch can suck my left nut, and kiss my fat Cuban ass.
(Yes, I am Cuban)
You're not a loser, neither can you get a date, neither are you a virgin/dry spell victim by choice.

THINKING makes it so. Stop THINKING, and DO. ACCEPT what IS, and ACT AS IF.

That sentence alone is worth $1,000,000,000. I give it to all of you for free. I am a fucking idiot, and the most generous of souls at the same time.

Moving on:
EVIL...is NOT rewarded.
RESULTS...are rewarded.

Most of the time, RESULTS...appear to be EVIL. They are neither EVIL nor GOOD; they are just RESULTS. RESULTS put food in our belly, and a roof over our heads, and pussy on our cocks.

GOOD and EVIL is irrelevant, why the fuck do you care? No one who GETS RESULTS cares about GOOD or EVIL. They just GET RESULTS. Those who dwell on GOOD or EVIL...will die and be erased from genetic existence.

Mystery's quote shines bright: If you don't replicate, nature will UNAPOGETICALLY WEED YOUR GENES OUT OF EXISTENCE.

GOOD and EVIL don't promote survival, RESULTS do. RESULTS built the Pyramids, and Babylon, and Greece, and Rome, and England, and America, and the future we have yet to build.

...man, fuck that. Moving on:
Stop thinking.
Because you're thinking.
SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!!
You're destroying yourself!

Stop trying to find meaning. Stop critically thinking. Results are all that matters; no one gives a sniveling fuck about your misery, solely because YOU CAN REVERSE IT WITH A SIMPLE THOUGHT IMPULSE!
YOU SEE WHAT CRITICAL THINKING DOES TO YOU!!!!
You're in a spiral of negativity. You've become 98% of the world population. DUDE, KNOCK IT OFF!
DARWIN CAN SUCK MY COCK! Stay in the present!!! Don't think dude!
Brutality is a VICE!
THINKING IS A VICE!

FAITH WITHOUT QUESTION...is a virtue. FOLLOW IT!
Fuck the Nazis, STOP THINKING. Stop dwelling on irrelevant bullshit!
Live NOW! NOW IS NOW!
You ARE a fucking virgin. Nothing wrong with that, but realize your critical thinking and dwelling on NOT NOW is killing you, and sealing your fate as a virgin. Cut the shit. WAKE UP. LIVE RIGHT NOW, RIGHT NOW, RIGHT FUCKING NOW!
EXCUSES! You're only hurting yourself.
Stop thinking. Stop being negative. It's a choice. Live NOW. Live NOW!!!!!
NOW is all that matters. The moment.

Fuck the past. Fuck the future. Your past DOES NOT EXISTS. Your PRESENT is mired in THINKING, which is BAD! You're compromising your POTENTIAL AWESOME FUTURE with irrelevant bullshit. Stop it. Stop thinking. Do, don't think.
SHUT YOUR FUCKING MOUTH!
You're killing yourself mentally dude!

Cut the bullshit!
Stop thinking! Stop dwelling. Stop trying to find meaning.

Accept everything AS IT IS, AT THE MOMENT, and Live NOW. NOW!!!

Right fucking NOW! THE MOMENT! IMMEDIATELY!
Evopsych is a pile of toilet shit.
Women aren't victims; they merely require their needs met.
YOU choose to see them as wolves.
Perhaps it's just a friendly competion
Or multiple teams building each other.

FRAME.
BY STAYING IN THE PRESENT

Ok, dude, I refuse to quote the rest of this post.
It's all bullshit. Irrelevant distractions.

Stay in the present. Don't dwell on shit. Live NOW. Smile. Make a proactive movement to improve your life AS IT IS, NOW.

Accept things AS THEY ARE. ACT AS IF you were a person who get's shit done. ACT like the king. You ARE a king.

No more critical thinking bullshit. Women are women. Instead of attacking them, fuck them with your cock.

Cmon man. Smile. Life is too short to find it's meaning. Life is life, that is the meaning of life.

SIMPLIFY. We are ALL atoms at our core.

I have been through all the shit of the original poster. All I can tell him is that he is only building his own personal hell because of a lot of bad conditioning and a poor self image. He is clearly living inside a mental model of the world, rather than the real world. The real world has as much good in it as bad. If he sees all bad then his perception is skewed, or he is not really looking outside himself at all.

I call that "being sucked up into my head".

There is also nothing wrong with seeing a therapist. They can help you to see where you are forcing a negative interpretation onto everything.

As far as the whole darwinian perspective, you should know what Darwin ACTUALLY said, and was nothing about being the biggest meanest monkey.

“In the long history of humankind (and animal kind, too) those who learned to collaborate and improvise most effectively have prevailed”

“It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent that survives. It is the one that is the most adaptable to change.”

I would also say that YOUR MIND IS NOT THE REAL WORLD because you cannot know everything, and also because you are full of perceptions and judgements which simply cause you problems.

If you are a good and moral person, you will want to get all of the shit out of your head so that you can function better. Sitting around judging everything is worthless and actually is a bit evil in itself. Think about it, is that what a good person does ? Hell no!