Reason for freezeout: I texted her tonight to see if she wanted to catch up. She declined.

My goal: No contact until she contacts me.

She needs time to sort herself out. I need to gain her trust again as I fucked it up a year ago by dumping her. We got back into contact and have been sleeping together but now she wants to just be friends until she can trust me again.

I'm starting this topic to share my thoughts so that I don't sit around typing out stupid AFC msgs to "try" get her back. Fuck that. The freezeout will work a treat, as long as I stick to it.

It's been an extremely fucked up week (my dad died) and I'm kind of down, which means it'd be really good to have my girl around. This is a tough time for me as i've turned really needy. But I have to stick this out.

Wish me luck and feel free to post your freezeout results here.

Sorry for your loss Mate

All i can say about freezeout is that it works---they all crave attention and dont like being ignored

Sorry about your dad bro and good luck with this freeze out.

A small piece of advice, or rather suggestion?

Why don't you go out, leave your phone in your house and go talk to random girls? That always changes my mood and will keep your mind off from your girl. You are obviously not going for phone numbers so remove the 'I want to close' mentality and go have some fun.

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Drink me, make me feel real
Wet your beak in the stream
Game we're playing is life
Love is a two way dream

Thanks guys.

The problem is I want to grab hold of my girl at a time when she needs space. I know this will send her running. Hence the freezeout.