There's this friend of mine, who I used to talk to before she got married. I just found out she recently got divorced about a year ago. Back in the day she used to be fuckin gorgeous! I'm talking a look-alike for Angelina Joilee. No joke. She had the lips and everything else, etc...

The only problem is, she gain around 40 (going from 5'2" 110 to around 146) pounds during the last few years of marriage (must be why her husband left her for another woman, sad but true). She's got a great personality and we really connect on certain levels. That's the problem though, she's gotten a little overweight and I don't think she wants to REALLY lose it. She's gotten to comfortable with the weight. She's REALLY into me as well, but went from a HB10 to an HB6 with all that weight.

So, what would you guys do? Is it even worth it to put the effort in? I know most are going to say no. I am most likely going to at least try, but keep her at arm's length until I am certain she is committed to improve herself.

What do you guys think?

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I'm not run of the mill, because it's from the mill I'm running...

Technically speaking, no it's not worth it. However, if you really feel some strong connection with her you could try to get her to lose weight.

Take her on a date to the gym. Say you really love the gym and you want to share that thing that you love with her so she doesn't think that your trying to make her not fat. You better be convincing as hell though because the first thing she'll think is that you think she's fat and you have to convince her that's not the case by being completely congruent.

That's the only way I can currently think of to help your problem. It's not even a guarantee for more than one or two visits.

Still, you can always just be friends with her and find someone else. She will likely lose the weight eventually if she gets no prospects in a while but if your her friend by then it won't work in your favor =/. Anyways, it's your call.

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Don't think you are, know you are.

There's only so many balls you have in the air at once before it gets too crazy. I think I am going to slow this one down a little. I have to.

Thanks.

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I'm not run of the mill, because it's from the mill I'm running...

Or you could respect that she has the right to look exactly the way she chooses. If you need to have a beautiful woman by your side you had better work that inner game.

It is her body, not yours.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

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