I've often wondered about this. I smoke like a chimney and don't really have any plans of giving up in the near future, so when I'm out with a girl I'm always gonna need a smoke.
There have been some positive sides to smoking in my game, I've met loads of girls through having to go stand outside, one of the hottest girls I've slept with I met after she came up to me to ask me for a lighter.

But what I wonder about is girls that don't smoke..

Is it best to ask if they mind you smoking with them out of politeness? I usually do, but am worried this comes across as AFC, by asking her if she approves of you doing something..

Do non smokers really care that much if you smoke? Is it really a big turn off for them? (I always carry gum etc).

Sorry if this topic has been done to death, I have searched but the forum really needs a 'search topic title only' option

Yeah it seriously pisses non smokers off, i went out with a girl and we were walking down a street and we were about to pass a beer garden and she made us change sides to avoid the smell

No thats called courtesy and has fuck all to do with being AFC. Seriously people need to stop being so paranoid about that rubbish. Being polite and considerate does not make you any less of a man. Thats like asking if its AFC to hold a door open for a girl. Its ok to do small favours here and there.

Bepends on how you ask (tonality, eyecontact, bodylanguage) also depends on where your at some cultures it alright also depends on the chick. Girls wont NOT fuck a guy cause he smokes, look at rocks stars the shoot up do all kinds of shit and girls throw themselves at them.

Depends on how you ask? Yes well voice tonality, thats considered pretty important in this 'scene' so don't you think its kind of irrelevant pointing that out? But then the guy did start a thread asking about it so who knows?

Just try not to smoke! when your on a date they will think your an arse and how ever many chews you have your breathe is still gunna stink.

yeah so just try and resist the urge


Good Luck

As a non smoker who stoped about a week ago, i will say , if you smoke u will tend to date smokers, dunno why , how ever ive dated non smokers and they know you smoke when they met you so unless they express serious no nos about it it dont matter just hold it away from them and blow the smoke away from them as well if its just you and them out and you want a ciggerette and they dont want to be out in the smoking bit, waite for her to go get a drink and say ill just go have a smoke ill have a .... its cheeky but if ur game is tight


if its smoking in a small space yes do ask if she minds if you light up but say it in a more im lighting up i hope you dont mind manner, so its more a you can leave if you like thing cus lets face it you dont want her to say yes i do mind now do you

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I don't smoke when I'm out on a date with a nonsmoker unless I don't want to kiss her that night. Every girl I go out with knows that I'm a smoker and if they don't like it I can still turn them on

All women are different. I had alot toruble wit my last g/f cuz she smoked hated it. My friends fam do it but my preference was a non-smoker so it erked me.

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