So she just called me. I picked her up at her sisters place, she had taken drugs and did not sleep whole evening. (We are from Holland, drus is normal here read it in that context, she just very tired)
So, she wanted to go home to sleep, and she first went home to get some money to buy some mariuana for us. So she could sleep.
But she was so happy to see me again, I could notice that. (She would totally deny it of course)
I'n my car we smoked it, and now she totally openened up to me for the first time! And let me elicit values, with some kino! Great! No resistance!
We have a date tonight, we will go to see a parade of boats (There is this city festival going on) The boats will be lightend. It would be very romantic to girls!
She asked me on this date!! Her idea! (I just hope she will come alone and that it will en at my place of couse)
Mistery is a genius!
I tell you this girl would have never spoken to me again if I at that point did not tell her I loved her (and just found that out). And nobody would have expected, that whas what she wanted to hear. But suddenly were cool again! SMS is such a great invention, because else I could have never told her that! (And I would have never understand that there is no other way to fix this)
I believe in damage control!
Why? Now she's cool with me. I will see many girls, she has so many girlfriends! I can have so much practice. And still even try fuck her!
So, forget that on no damage control. Damage control is easy, and good! (Were all human and make mistakes)
Just pause. Show intrest (even if she tells wants you to stop), tell her you just found out you love her and can't stop thinking of her. Then when you meet her again, go kino! And pick up the game again. (Write this down, becouse you will make mistakes!! And need to be able to fix them with girls)
Look on google: "PUA Freezeout" for mysterys freezout video. That is the attitude you need with girls!! Right until they want you to fuck, then fuck them. If the don't, let them get tired at your place, go to bed. (Say youre bored before they do, and sleep) If she will join have sex or the next morning!!
Think of the DHV this is, I always damage control. I keep my friends. (She has seen that I'm very forgiving, if not pushed too far, for a girl that is a DHV couse she is afraid she might lose you easy) I even kept her, that whas not her intention, at all, but now she made a romantic date for us!
It will also be a DHV for all her girlfriends! They will find it amazing she is hanging out with me again. How the hell did that happen!? (The week before she totally hated me)
Fuck the: "no damage control, don't waist time." That is bad advise. Cost me only 20 minutes writing SMS in total. (All other advise has been very good indeed, but this is bad)
"Game On Player!" That is my new motto!
Always control damage keep your friends build a social circle! Not doing damage control, will make your circle smaller! I only stop damage control if I find out the person in question is totally unreliable.
If a girl ends up to be a normal girlfriend, and you do not f-close her. You still have a girlfriend, showing preselection, to be used as pivot ect. And you are still in a circle of girls, and these girs know girls and so on!!
Maybe a nonsexual girlfriend has some advantages, you won't lose her! She is like an anchor in her girlie social circle. (Just be sure you fuck one of her friends, so girls don't think youre some loser)
Keep your friends, and then keep that Mystery attitude! Always change your girls deo smell. (Make them smell the girls)
Some other trick for the car, a girl lipstick kissed on my backseat window! (I keep it, but you could do yourself I figured
) Some long hairs in the car!! Girls will feel the pre-selection!!
And once pre-selected things are so much easyer, it is so important! Pre-selection makes for instant attraction!
Sniper, PUA
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