Heres the overview: Met a girl online as a part of a fun forum I go onto to. Shes a definite eight, really nice body, my age and a goth. Shes never kissed a guy and is a virgin. She even lives near me. Yesterday I decided to go for her and she mentioned (before I went into material so it wasent a LJBF or IHAB response) that a guy from her past is coming back. Shes never had a boyfriend and she said this guy is nice and sweet and shes thinking of getting with him, she didnt get with him before because she said he wasent that cute. What do I do? Ive tried a few made up routines, tried disaualifying him (I can post what I put if its necessary) and all I did was change her from maybe to I dont know. What can I do to get rid of this AFC and number close?

1) ... you don't have her number? I would anyway go for a number-close and would not care about the other. If she gives you her number, at least your not disqualified.

2)
But now get this... you need to be a bigger challenge than the other guy. If you get to much into her, too fast... guess what. The opposite will happen and she will hang out with the other guy. Put her on probation.. back up a little bit - be not available that much any more.

And then watch things progressing... If her interest level is more than 50% you will gain points for not beeing needy. Mostly the other guy will make mistakes...


To sum up:
- Put her on probation. Get your own life... And see what happens. You need to be ready to walk not look back.

dont disqualify him it makwes you look jelous and insecure you should be impartial cuz you can do better anyways

ps dont call him an afc if hes about to get her look inward because in this situation you are the afc

just act like you don't care about the other guy. talk to other girls, don't concentrate all your energy on her.

I agree with prelude. A lot of guys I deal with tell me about problems they are having with getting stood up and flakey girls and so on...my answer for this- Move on move on move on. Dont get stuck up on one girl for too long because you are just going to waste all your time and energy while you could be lining something else up in the meantime.
It will just drain your emotional state in the end bro.

Be willing to talk to other girls. Be willing to walk away from a bad situation and show it. But in your case this is not even a bad situation. If I were in your position with this one I would def not give a crap about this other dude. Spit your game because you are the MAN! You are the prize ok. If you get jealous of this other guy that makes you seem insecure. And that is unattractive which lowers your value.
To show confidence in your situation I would not talk smack about this dude or go over multiple reasons of why she should not go with him because all she is going to do is feel like proving to you AGAIN of how sweet and cute she is. That is exactly what you dont want to do. I hope you see where I am going with that.

Just go for the close. The worst she can do is reject you. If she does reject you dont let it phase you. Stay strong and continue to mac on her. Most guys cant handle rejection and tap out at the first sign of reluctance. You wont do this because you are a skilled PUA. Keep on keepin on and go for the close again.

John C