Something that pisses me off about this forum!!!



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PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 5:08 pm 
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Why is it that alot of people look at posts and dont even coment!

there are posts that have like 100 views and no comments cant somebody at least say something!? ANYTHING!? like, great post or at least tell the person if their post doesnt make any sense. you could just do it to get the extra points.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 5:48 pm 
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Well, often times I don't see myself experienced enough to answer a certain question. So I let somebody else more experienced read the post instead.

Why does this piss you off? Wouldn't you rather get a great answer from a PUA, rather than a sucky one from a WBAFC?


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 6:09 pm 
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it pisses me off cus not all people are like you, some are little bitches that are too afraid to comment cus I think theyre afraid that if what if they post something and it gets a negative comment? do you understand what im trying to say LH?


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 6:21 pm 
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Yeah I see where you're coming from. On the other hand, the reason that many of the members are here is because they are insecure in the first place.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 6:27 pm 
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Well LH those people will always be insecure unless they do something about it, cant believe that they are too insecure to write something on a forum where most people dont know them BITCHES!!!


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 6:38 pm 
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I would also bank it on the fact that none of us live on these forums. Topics gets written, shoved lower and lower down the list by new topics, and then forgotten about. I know when I log on, I for one just look at the top [newest] few topics in each catagory.

And yes, it could be some people don't feel "qualified" to answer them. What would be the reason you didn't answer them yourself? :shock: I wouldn't get pissed about something that happened online. If it was you that asked the question and you are pissed no one helped you, try bumping your topic.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 6:49 pm 
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I just get pissed cus some people dont like to reply but yeah there are some people that dont have alot of experience or they just have nothing to say on the subject and thats perfectly fine I mean Im not going to lie I dont respond to some of the topics but when a post gets alot of views and no answers now I think that thats just messed up, but what im trying to say is that people shouldnt be afraid to comment or say something ,those are the people im pissed off at.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 7:14 pm 
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Well LH those people will always be insecure unless they do something about it, cant believe that they are too insecure to write something on a forum where most people dont know them BITCHES!!!
I really have no idea, I'm just assuming stuff.

Anyway, I think you should calm down a little bit. That's just my opinion.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 7:52 pm 
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you know what LH and the rest of you, your right look I apologize but lets just put this in the past.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 10, 2009 8:20 am 
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I understand about people not responding but personally some topics are aasking very specific questions that I dont have the experience to answer. but its definitely educational to read the post and read an exerienced individuals answer to it.


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I usually comment but if I see someone has answered a question, I won't bother unless I can add something.

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PostPosted: Sat Jan 10, 2009 5:06 pm 
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It just seems your mad that people didn't reply to one of your threads, correct?

If you can't take no feedback, I'd hate to see you get negative feed back. Calm down, man.
Agreed.

I used to get pretty pissed when I wrote thought-out threads and no one replied. Then I learned that I was getting pissed because I was being driven by my ego, constantly checking back at the threads I wrote, almost WORRIED about what other people thought of me based on what I wrote. Essentially, because of my ego, I desperately wanted the validation of someone else telling me that my thoughts were correct and helpful.

So, I just took a minute to fully realize that the things I wrote really were helpful to at least some other people. These thoughts have helped me, so why wouldn't it benefit others? There's no need to get pissed when I get zero responses. The people who seek the help I posted will find it, and that's all that matters. I have no need to have my ego validated by anyone else.

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PostPosted: Sun Jan 11, 2009 4:07 am 
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well you know what i don't like -- when members on the forum personally attack another member, but I don't post topics about it. I'm sure everyone has this problem its just that people don't always have an opinion strong enough for them to want to reply.

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