Ok so there seems to be a divide accross this community when it comes to toungue banging your girls.personally, i love the taste of vag.ive never had any second thought on it.now let me tell you, 99.9% of the time im very dominant in the bedroom.i like to tease, throw her around,and i never ask for permission for anything.i sometimes even go all 50 shades of grey on her and make her tell me shes MY bitch and that its my pussy.however, i also love going down on her, usually to tease her.lately my girls been wanting to sit on my face, and i must say, its a turn on for me but i can see how it would be considered a little more beta than just eating her some.my belief is that the main aspect of dominance should be what you do OUTSIDE the bedroom, and that your sex life is different from your social life and as long as your still being dominant alot in the bedroom, then theres nothing beta about it.if i actually let her ride my face in a dominant manner, then i take over from there and dominate the fuck out of her, am i sacrificing my alpha-hood? What are yalls thoughts on this?

Is this the kind of thing that guys worry about during sex? OMG!!! This has to be a joke.

Be nice. It's just a question. You could have answered it since you are a girl and know how you view it.

OP, if it's something that you like to do then don't worry about it. From what I understand, and our current resident woman didn't seem to address, is that if going down on a woman is what you love to do, you won't have a hard time finding one that will refuse it...no matter how you like to go down.

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Sorry, you're right. If my man wanted me to ride around on his face I'd do it without hesitation and wouldn't think any less of him.

I realize this seems. Like a dumb topic and for the most part it is.personally i never put this much thought into it until i read in various places that some guys feel it goes completely against the mentality we strive to achieve.i dont think it does as long as you dont let her run over you when it comes to the important stuff...but i like to get as many opinions as possible on these things.both of you guys input is appreciated.

Getting a woman off is not beta behavior. It's how you and keep a woman.

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This.

If you enjoy doing it, then I can't see why you wouldn't want to.
Get her off and she'll be coming back for more.

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This seems to have been asked and answered - we get so caught up in labels and how our actions may or may not pigeon-hole us or cast us in a certain shade.

Remember, one of the most important things to keep in mind is that we are on a continuous linear path from beginning to end - if you decide to take any action, or no action, you continue to move forward on your personal timeline because it is finite. This is life - a linear, continuous path, whether you decide to live it, live it poorly, or live it well.

That being said, since we are all communicating on this forum, it seems we have all taken it upon ourselves to live our lives well, true to our definition of what that means - we are constantly evolving and thus should always be adaptable as Change is truly the only constant. There is a point here, stay with me.

In order to truly take advantage of the opportunity given to each one of us, it is incumbent upon us as individuals to live our lives true to ourselves, unique to ourselves, and as full as we can - be true, be unique, and live life fully - now in order to fulfill life's ultimate purpose (according to my personal philosophy at least), it is important to share our experiences, the burdens that we have been forced to bear, obstacles that we have overcome with those we come in contact with - the exchange of ideas and information makes us all better for it, and adds another element to our lives.

So, every day, improve yourself, add knowledge and merit and value to your life, become better, more interesting, be confident and share. Being Alpha is being a Virtuous Modern Man - strong of spirit, strong of mind, strong in principle - one who knows what he wants and continuously iterates his approach and actions to get to his goals.

Everything else should flow from the core set of values that form your foundation. Confidence, Sexiness, Success, all the other cascading attributes will flow from there - the selflessness or selfishness (whatever/however you decide to view this next point ) of joining with a partner and pleasing her to the umpteenth degree is derived from there - it is not alpha nor beta behavior if you have rough sex with her or go down on her and stack her orgasms - it is consensual joining and mutual pleasure or at least it should be - it is Alpha to please her completely physically (to orgasm) and have her glowing and happy because as an Alpha male that means you will get yours as well and you have been a virtuous giver of pleasure.

I hope this makes sense and you can thank me later for this too long thesis

- HERC

Lol round of applause. Awesome post.

It would be a bit beta if you let her spit in your mouth. I had a girl do that to me once. When she was on top, she let a good half mouthful drop in!