Hi

Hopefully some of you are familiar with short/medium/long fuse theory from love systems. If not, in short it relates to text game and how invested she is in you. Short fuse = she is very invested. Long fuse = you have to put lots of investment and likely end up looking like a needy tool.

So I met this girl in a bar, got her contact details. She was a super long fuse in the weeks after, blowing me off a couple of times. Played it cool, didn’t react, and managed to meet her a week or so ago. To be honest wasn’t expecting much on the date due to the flakiness before.

It surprisingly went fantastically and although it wasn’t feasible to k-close at the time, I escalated smoothly to hand holding by the end of the date.

She seemed really into me, and the conversation was awesome. Probably one of the smoothest first dates I’ve ever had.

Now she’s pulling this long fuse bullsh1t again, and its difficult to get some investment on her part. She did tell me on the date that she doesn’t really think too far ahead in the future, hence she blew me off a few times previously.

Now I’m going to continue playing it cool, not reacting to the flakiness, and keep intermittently finding out if she’s available for a second date… but I’m just curious to know what you guys think might be going on here? Any pointers?

Thanks in advance

Sack off at that Braddock text game shit and go in with a mindset of just getting to the point and putting some pressure on her to flake or meet.

'Let's meet up for a drink, which day this week are you free?'

if she says:

Yes, how about x day? =she likes you
Maybe or No = she doesn't like you

This is all you need:
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You bold devil!

No fucking boring.

Listen to Dracula, this shit's way simpler than you think!

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It doesn't seem she's that into you.

I'd blow her off if I were you. At this point, it's about pride and respect for yourself. First off, she's flaked on you several times, you say, before the first date. That's a red flag already. Now she's acting all cold. Eh, I don't know, but I wouldn't put all my eggs in one basket.

Everybody enjoys fresh eggs.

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