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I was out with my friend to the bars and we met these two girls. After talking to them I invited them over to my place to smoke some weed. One of the girls was really hot and after we roll the blunts and go outside to smoke them, the hot one w me, her friend w my friend. She takes me away from them (high and drunk as fuck btw, could barely stand up) and starts asking me this provocative questions about what kind of girls I like and why don’t I have a girlfriend etc.. Anyway we go back inside and she sits next to me again. Douchebag friend goes like: You know he hasn’t dated a girl for 4 years now (sad but true). She says “awwww that’s so cute and kisses me on the cheek”… Her friend got really high and asks her to leave together and goes out. She asks me to go get her but I’m too stoned to even move. So she says she has to go and asks me to hug her. So I did. Then she goes like: “you’re not gonna get my number?” so I take her number and say goodnight to her. Anyway I text her tomorrow, since I sobered up and she replies to some of my texts and then stops. 3 days later I send her a friend request on facebook and she accepts is a couple days later. At the meantime I had forgotten about her, thought she would never respond to my friend request but today she accepted it and I was wondering if I should hit her up on facebook or something or just let it go. My friends said that if anything would have happened between us it should have been that night and that most likely she just wanted to smoke weed and that was it. You guys think I should message her or no? If yes, what should I say? I’m still friends with her but she probably doesn’t even know who I am anymore lol..

This kills me when guys get a phone number and all they use it for is to text. Call her and meet up with her. The text messages and Facebook are all steps backwards. Move forward. Call her and say "let's meet up for drinks." Bring her back to your house and instead of getting high, get laid.

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Your brother and your friends are trying to cockblock you, out of jealousy. As Jack says, call her. Invite her for drinx or invite her over for netflix or something. U got this.

thanks for the replies. But wouldn't it be awkward to call and talk to her after almost 3~4 weeks now? She most likely would feel surprised and ask me who I am....

Then text her or facebook her. Bottom line invite her out or over to your place.