Ahhhh friends with benefits. Who wouldn´t love having a friend you can just call and fuck with?
So theres this friend of mine that I would love to have sex with, but definately not be in a serious relationship with. I can tell she is slightly attracted to me and I want that attraction to build in the "just sex" direction. We are both the same age (19). We are actually going out this week for a beer.

So I wondered if there was a developed technique to go about it. I searched the forum with no luck. Do any of you guys have any experience with this situation?

What are some clever ways to propose to be frinds with benefits without much risk?

Here is some stuff that I think would help:
-Ocasionally mention attraction for other women (e.g. if a hot girl passes by I tell my friend to look at that ass jokingly). This way she will think that I don´t want anything serious with her.

-I could bring out the topic "when was the last time you had sex?" to see if it has been a long time for her and then say that it has been a long time for me too (it has been 6 months). So then I could say something along the lines of "I think theres an easy solution for this", insinuating that we should have sex.

Would really appreciate your help with this
This is my first post!

I would just game her like another girl, but i would make sure that you tell her your intentions before you sleep with her and not after just in case she gets the wrong idea and wants to start dating, i also don't recommend that you start checking out other people while your out with her because she may think you are a dick and you may ruin your chances to bang her all together.
just one word of warning because i was in the same kind of position a while back (when i did not know much about game) and things got really awkward and now we no longer speak so be careful and good luck !!

This is extremely correct... make sure you do not check out other girls in front of her as this may make her jealous and may make her want you more as a boy friend then just a friend with benefits. I have gone down this road with many women before. Sometimes keeping it as friends with benefits is harder then keeping a relationship going. Yes she needs to kno your intentions so please don't take her out on dates or pay for anything... DONT DO ANYTHING YOU WOULD FOR A GIRL FRIEND!!! I will almost put money on it that eventually she will get feelings for you as naturally she wont be able to enter any other relationship with anyone else if your having sex with her... So be ready to deal with that some time later on and always remind her what you two are.

I am trying out techniques to get to the fuckbuddy/friends with benefits status right now. I failed a couple of times and it got suprisingly ugly. One girl just texted me last night, to meet up, after I broke it off months ago, because she was definitly falling in love. I texted her that I'd love to meet up, but just as friends. Her reply "then we shouldn't meet at all". My first instinct was "what the fuck is wrong with her, I told her like 5 times it ain't gonna happen", but there we are.

Now, I have to say, I'm trying to stay casual with girls, without being a jerk about it, but it's a really fine line. I apologized to her, telling her, I'd never have started something if I'd known she'd take it so seriously and we got in a whole thing. She told me , she doesn't believe me that I don't have feelings for her (whatever the fuck that is supposed to mean) blablabla.
And then I have a current fuck buddy, who is still very much in love with another guy, which is perfect for me. Cause hanging out with me seems to help her to forget him and we're really really honest about our intentions. So far it's working out really well, but I'm concerned that down the line she is gonna fall for me too.

In my endeveour to find the best way to aquire sex buddies i've made a couple of key observations I want to share with you guys (I'd love to hear your thoughts and other observations):

- Make your intentions clear, as soon as possible (before sex!). Then make it clear again... And keep making it clear, cause she's gonna "forget". But on the other hand...

- She ain't gonna listen! You can tell her that she's just a piece of meat to you, and she'll still think "he is the one". Some girls are just like that. If they fall they fall, reason be damned. But if you told her beforehand, at least morally you're in the clear.

- Your action count more than your words! Even if you have a tape running that tells her every couple of minutes that you just wanna hook up, if you introduce her to your friends, invite her to parties, hang out with her for a prolonogued periods of time, without sex, she's gonna missinterpret things. So especially in the first couple of weeks, be careful with sending the wrong message. That being said:

- Even if you are fuckbuddies, you're still buddies. Be nice. You can fuck a girl silly, tie her up, deep throat her til she pukes. But you should still be a decent person. Most girls - even if they agree to keep it casual - are just not casual about sex the same way we are. Even if she doesnt wanna be in a LTR, she most likely still likes you for more then your cock. You might just want to pork that sweet, soft pussy but for her it's the whole experience, from the kiss to the cuddle afterwards.
You shouldn't walk her fucking dog or pick her up from the airport, but be decent. You don't need to kick her out the door as soon as the deed is done. You can still watch a movie, or eat a sandwich with a sexbuddy. And yes I am well aware, there are rare girls, who really just wanna fuck the same way you do, but show me one of those, and I show you a 100 girls with broken hearts who have been treated like shit, because some asshole pseudo-PUA thought he can get away with it.

- If you have to break it off, be clear but gentle. And leave her the fuck alone! I've made that particular mistake several times, trying to be the decent guy and texting them a couple of days later, just to make sure they're okay. Ain't worth it. She's gonna be mad at you, you're gonna get defensive cause you think you did everything right. She doesn't need her ex-whatever to ease the pain, that's her girlfriends job. Your job is to be honest and upfront and leave her the fuck alone if things go south. And eventually they will. That's the thing with friends with benefits. Eventually one party is gonna want different things then the other party. Then you just have to move on. Fuckbuddy Status is a tricky thing and nothing you can "work on". If she develops feelings you can't fuck them out of her. You just have to let her go and leave her the fuck alone.

Woohoo Friends with Benefits is my specialty.

Here's something I've written on the subject:

http://chiefpua.com/managing-expectatio ... ationship/

I'll be writing a more extensive guide eventually.