I have experience a problem when I try to approach and meet girls in the nightclub scene. That problem is the very load music and environment that some venues have.
It is very difficult to understand what a person is saying. Sometimes, I cannot even understand my own friends and they cannot neither. The problem gets bigger when I try to meet new people, especially when approaching a group. I have to scream and most of the times to a girl's ear to make my self clear. As I wrote, the problem is bigger with groups. If I have to get very close to someone in order to make my self clear, how can I communicate with a whole group? It is hard to focus on a group if it as hard to interact with only one girl.
I go to bars and lounges where the noise is less than nightclubs for better interaction, but I also want to have a great time and meet new people when I'm in a loud nightclub.
Do you guys have any tips to reduce this problem?
I just got 21, so I'm some kind of new to the night life. Maybe I would get accustomed and this problem would be disappear. But, I'll still like to get tips at this very moment.