Long time since I've posted due to work. I've been dating this girl for 3 months. She's from goa. We met at work and have been with each other 3/4 times a week going on dates, a lot of sex etc. she told me she loved me very early on. Which shocked me a bit. After a while I developed feelings for her.
But things have changed. I've become beta and her alpha.
It changed after I was in Milan with work and she was in Melbourne. We were skyline and she was drunk and talking about this Serbian guy she was working with and how he snapped his banjo and she had to take him to hospital with her manager. Anyway me being insecure from past relationships felt she had been cheating and when on SPAM she said something like "we're not dating...are we?" I said "no, but I wish". Anyway 2 days later we met up and I felt weird and awkward she was normal but after than the way she saw me she became distant. Bla blah. After getting drunk we had a talk and she was implying she wants me to be her bf. telling me how much she loves me and would do anything for me. So I said let's do it. Then next day she doesn't remember it much.

She's continually mentioning about me going to spring break in cancun in 10 days. Asking if I'm going to sleep with anyone and saying "I want you to enjoy yourself, you planned this before me just don't tell me what you get up to" her house mate (A girl from near me in my hometown) has bean asking me if I will do anything and if I did would I tell "my girl".
----what does that mean?

Anyway she asked to meet my parents and it went great. Following my parents advice and advice of others to admit how I feel and tell her. I did. Turns out she didn't know what she wants and just cried. And wants to take things slow. Due to a bad breakup from her last relationship which was on and off for 8 years with a45 year old with a kid, "my girl" is 26.

She's been at home for 3 weeks and comes back in a few hours. While at home she went to her exs birthday with her brother (they are mates ) and he owns all the clubs in goa. And one of her good friends (let's call him twat) has been telling her (before she went home after she met me). How much he loves her and he wants to marry her etc. she's been telling me who she's out with and each time for the past. 3 months when this guy has been saying this to her. Until I asked her not to as it was getting to me.
I can understand she may be stressed with building her new house at home and being home reminding her of her ex. She said it reminds her of the good and bad times.

So basically gents. I have no fucking idea what to do. I work in a job where women are easy to come by (aviation). And this is the first girl ive felt anything for since splitting with my fiancé a few years ago. Which she knows about.
Am I just a rebound? - she says not.
Do I keep distant? - as I've been chasing her a lot and acting like a little puppy bitch.

She knows I've booked a late valentines thing for us. Hotel room, spa and dinner. As we couldn't do anything on valentines last month. This date is tomorrow.

It's already paid for so I'm going to do it.
What should I do with her? Remain faithful?
She tells me she loves me every other dY, or all the time when drunk. And that she'd like to have kids with me etc but she hasn't told her mum off fiends about me as "they will ask too many questions " and her mum says. "The white boy just wants to fuck you ".

She's told me that she told "twat" she loves me and there is something between us too.
Oh one more thing she always used to talk about our sex life and how horny she is (we had a lot of sex and she always says how much she loves making me cum). But I noticed since her exs birthday at his club she's hardly talked about it. I've initiated it a few times. Sent pics. And all I've had is "ha" or "babe I'm with my mum" etc if anything at all she just changes the convo. - I asked her if something has happened. She said no.
Basically I think she is no longer attracted to. Me or has been fucking her ex or someone.
It think that's everything.

Cheers in advance lads!!

Adam