Firstly i would like to start off with I have no idea if this is the right to be posting this here or not, if it is wrong all i can do is apologize, sorry :p
The whole idea of having game has fascinated me as I, along with many who probably sign up to this have little to none. This might come down to fact that I never had a dad (left before i was born) to teach me the ways. However I am not using this as an excuse by any means in fact I see this as kinda of a positive. I was brought up in a house of women if anything that should give me an insight into how they perceive the world, then again i could be talking absolute bullshit which is more likely to be honest.
Ok so after reading up on the game and watching countless videos for the last two weeks I felt ready to do some real world practice. I live in a relatively small town and the only nights you might even encounter a female in the pub is a Friday or a Saturday. The nearest city is 20 miles away and I don't drive so at the moment i am happy dealing with the limited sets i have open to me although i am talking to another guy i met in these forums about going out sarging with him
So tonight comes along it is a Friday im suited up etc feeling pumped, tonight was going to be good, going out with three friends my only goal was to open sets. Easy i thought to myself, oh how i was mistaken. I know about the three second rule. I wasn't aiming for much yet i found several factors still getting my way, mainly guys being in sets. I can not get over the fact that they are either their boyfriends or an alpha male that is going to push me out. Could this be a downside side of my reading to much on the subject of alpha males or am i just doing the typical mistake of over thinking it?
Either way i ended up thinking and this has worked with me before that a few drinks would help ease my nerves. The night goes on with me sadly me not opening much, other than my wallet to the bartender. However this did kinda work towards the end of the night with me opening a few sets most of which ended badly, due to a mixture of me not knowing where to take it from there, or me being to drunk to actually care where i was taking it. That alone has taught me a valuable lesson dont drink, I mean having a laugh with friends was a great success all other aspects epic failure.
There were a few other things i have questions about to all you other avid PUA's like for example talking to girls in a club/bar over loud music? Sure this gives you a reason to get up close to the girl but it seems like a struggle. There was one three set that sticks out in my mind particularly two girls one guy on a sofa me a friend sat opposite but it was impossible to communicate across the table with the music lol
I may have gone on here for too long, just felt like i wanted to share my journey and perhaps pick up a few tips on the way. If any of it didn't make sense sorry might still be a bit tipsy.
Thanks for reading, Tricky
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