you shouldnt care how you are percieved by your friends, your personality should project that you are a sexual being, that you move through life carefree, dont try anything on your old friends cause they will see through this.
i think you are starting in the comfort building phase which should be the second thing you do.
in order its:
1)attract
2)comfort
3)seduce
each one must procede before the other can take place. its a hierarchy
research the Mystery Method, more particularly the "M3 model", everything you need is there.
also check out your body language, David DeAngelo has a great dvd set on this topic and Mystery even makes an appearance on it as well.
good luck
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