Why I think "natural" game gurus are full of crap.

I've been reading some new blogs that are talking about this "unique" concept "natural" game but I think I am going to reiterate that there is not really such a thing. If you are a familiar of game then you most likely have very many fascinating things to say that you have talked about similarly before and have had success with.

A competitive guy came up to me a few weeks back claiming that he had known everything he needed to do since he was young and that every time he talked to a girl he came up with a new topic and just let his confidence do the work.

So I then asked him to demonstrate.

I have to say that he was a bit reluctant but after I opened a couple of sets in front of him and managed to number close 1 with my fundamental routine methods then he was inspired to "demonstrate".

He went up to a decent looking girl with a little cocky look in his eye and she acknowledged him. He began to speak and this is what I gathered from the interaction:

Natural: What is your name?

Girl: Sarah

Natural: Nice name, I'm Jonathan.

Girl: Hi Jonathan

Natural: Hi, I was wondering what brings you here tonight?

Girl: Really?

Natural: Yes (Let's out a confused yet confident laugh)

Girl: You know you are like the 3rd guy to ask me what brings me here tonight.

Natural: I didn't mean anything by it.

Girl: Of course you didn't (Rolls eyes)

Natural: Well um, are those your friends? (Looks at girls next to her talking with other guys)

Girl: Well duh, you're so boring. Bye. (Walks to stand on other side with friends)

Firmly not surprised, I go up to the natural and asked how did it go?

He then told me I guess we didn't have any chemistry. I patted him on the shoulder and told him, "It happens" but inside I was thinking about how easy it would've been to conquer that situation if he just had something more interesting to say.

So the point of this post is to explain that everything in pick up is based on the fundamentals of openers, routines, escalation, etc.

I am getting sick of all the wannabe gurus out there with a marketing degree trying to market themselves as naturals. Who are selling BS about how confidence rules all, when in reality it doesn't matter how confident you think you are. You need to have something at least a tiny bit unique to say if you expect to stand out in the eyes of an attractive woman.

An attractive woman is getting hit on every 10-15 minutes when she goes out to a bar or a club. Just because you manage to get laid by a 6, 7 or maybe an 8, here and there for spending hours in the gym or having a good jawline does not mean that you are now the ultimate guru. One that doesn't use any of the pick up fundamentals and conquers with confidence, therefore the ultimate natural.

Most guys who go out enough will eventually run into a woman that wants to have sex with them. For whatever reason that may be, it still happens. Keep your confidence boost to yourself. Don't let that serotonin influence your ego to bounce out of control to the point that you are now coming up with this false pick up concept called "natural" game.

It's BS, all game is learned and not something you are born with. You might be born with good looks but that doesn't mean you have game. So to all you guys just getting into pick up. Ignore all these false gurus talking about the false concept "natural" game because it is all crap.

Real game is acquired through learning the fundamentals and years of practice. You get it from years of rejection and years of trial and error. Yes, some may improve at a different rate but I can guarantee you that it is anything but natural.

That's all I have to say. Thanks for reading.

-PUA Redsky (The Un-natural)

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