I met a girl in a club while she was working (walking around the floor selling drinks). She approached me to ask if i wanted to buy (which i didnt) and she ended up talking to me nearly the entire night instead of working. At the end of the night when the club closed i quickly asked her number.
A few days later i arranged a date to go for a drink. She seemed like a really awesome girl, really nice, into video games, etc. I really felt like we had alot in common. We spend the entire evening and night drinking, dancing and making out. At the end of the night she told me i couldnt come home with her on the first date (i personally dont live close). And i acted like it was no big deal.
About a week and a half later (she went on a midweek vacation) i asked her to come over to my place to barbeque and play racing games (she bragged about it on our date and we said we should play some times). We have tons of fun the entire night, drinking beers, making out all the time, lying in eachothers arms going cozy on the couch while playing video games.. Eventually i invite her to stay over for the night (during a fairly passionate make out session) but she refuses and she leaves to catch her train shortly after.
The day after she sends me a text saying that i am a really nice guys "in theory" but that her feeling says otherwise, and that she is looking for a guy who does give her a good feel.

Seriously what the hell..? Am i too boring? Maybe i was too attached (by going so cozy etc..?)