I been going back and forth with this one for a while...

My last relationship ended badly, the girl is pretty much trash and I caught wind of it early, but didn't heed the warnings. We were off and on for a while and I finally had the last straw this past winter and told her I didn't want to even be in touch with her anymore. Despite her insisting, she's kept at trying to lure me back in, but I know that I can't have her in my life and have remained firm with it. Friends with her is pretty much out of the question, but is it healthy to keep in touch with her family? Her little sister was like a little sister to me and I was close with her parents as well.

I think the truth is I'm not truly over her, but I have been going out (with alot of help from this site) and interacting with new women and am in a better spot socially than a LONG time. I'm feeling I'll have an easier time with this as I enter a new relationship.

Any advice? Stories?

Every girl who sucks your cock will help you forget your ex.

Spray your spunk on a new girl instead of shedding tears for the old.

Loneliness is more bearable with new chicks around. Hit up your buddies and start socialising more.

I think you should talk about this with the people involved and work out a way together because this could get very uncomfortable in the long run.

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Thank you for the responses. I'm not comfortable leaving them behind, but I do indeed feel a bit of a rush back when I see these people (old feelings;the dredge leading back). This get's me a bit depressed, but I do want to deal with it because I don't want to lose anymore people from my life. I know the only way forward is to find new women, and have made alot of progress toward this. I haven't had sex with anyone new yet, but I have hooked up with a couple of girls (hey good progress for an AFC huh?). I sort of did speak with them regarding the issue, and they don't think it's necessary that we have to vanish from one-anothers' lives. I think I just need to space out visits/drop inns and start to see other people in order to feel better about this issue (not to mention my own self esteem). My own mental health needs to come first.