| Lately after being out meeting women, I find myself analyzing when I go to bed and my head is overwhelmed by all this information that I have trouble going to sleep. I had it happen to me the other day but yesterday was when I lost my sleep almost completely which is why I'm making this topic.
I met a pretty girl to which I connected, negged her, complimented her, showed high value, was cool and in the moment, continuous flow of conversation, kino escalation all the time, phone closed, everything was perfect.
And of course when I went home my mind had to do all this great deal of logical and emotional thinking, going back to replay the scenes on my mind in order to recall that feeling and satisfaction of how well I carried myself, and also thoughts of how to proceed.
Thing is I got home at 2:30am which meant I had to go to sleep. I couldn't just kept myself busy at the time or call someone and talk it out. I was just feeling in the zone and couldn't let go. I was forcing myself to thing blank so I can go to sleep and rest but thoughts kept popping up. I even listened to Beethoven's 9th symphony for 30mins but that didn't help either. I eventually went asleep at 6am and woke up 3hours later with no alarm. I also made logical and conscious suggestion that sleep is vital and not worth losing over in any case cause i need to feel healthy and replenished, and my muscles need to recover from Gym. Nothing helped me. I was hopeless. (The only step i didn't take was meditation, cause i don't know how and if it works, nor did i feel i had the time to practice meditation so late at night so i could get to sleep).
So please I ask of you of a way, to empty the mind at will. when I know it is on overdrive, how can I zero-fill it?
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