Hello guys. I read this forum from pretty much time and I am really amazed from the information which I received here. I am writing for the first time and it's for a pretty common problem - my look. Lately I noticed that a lot of people on the streets start looking at me when i go near them and somehow I connect it with my look. This makes me feel strange and make all my courage to approach a girl fly off. That's why i decided to write here to ask you if there is some kind of problem with me. It could be just self-suggestion, but i want to be sure about that. I hope all of you will be honest. Here is a picture of myself.
Thank you

I really believe looks are not nearly as important as most people think they are. With that being said you asked for advice so I will give you mine. You look very young probably early 20's yet your clothes, glasses, hair cut and your clean shave do not feel age appropriate. Go to a good hair stylist and tell them you want a more age appropriate hair cut, lose the glasses for contacts or get a more hip style of glasses. Get a few nice polo shirts or v neck t shirts that you feel comfortable in. Also get outside and get a tan or go tanning, you look like you have been inside the last 6 months. When you go through this transformation make sure you feel somewhat comfortable with it, if you don't you won't have the confidence you need to succeed with women. Hope this helps and GL.

Ok, I'm ugly. xD

Man, I think it's more of how you show your emotions and confidence not your looks there.

What I would do:
1. Work on inner game.
2. Workout alot.
3. Groom myself up.
4. Sarge?

I have drastically changed my wardrobe and appearances in the last few months, so I know what you need to do. I get compliments all the time on being sexy now from girls who haven't seen me in months- they say I look really good now.

I bet you can become a great looking guy with a little work, but you have to be willing to change. From what I see, let me give you a few recommendations.

1. Get a tan, spend a little more time in the sun, it makes you glow just a little bit more.
2. Get contacts if possible- or get a more stylish pair of glasses perhaps.
3. Get sexy facial hair, that was one of the biggest changes for me. Make sure to keep it trimmed and well groomed, whatever style you go with.
4. Work out- this is a good one, it also helps build confidence.
5. New clothes- another big one- get brighter colors, make sure the clothes fit fairly snug, a big change for me was going from a size large to size medium, and I get a lot more compliments from women because of it.
6. Accessories- bracelets and interesting necklaces will add to your wardrobe.