Went solo tonight. Again since I don't have a descent wing here in Michigan. Went to 4 bars. Had a chick open me at the first and somehow killed the Convo. I just wasn't in the mindset I guess. She totally would have came home though. I don't know what my deal was. Just wasn't on my game. I think I just got tired of standing alone and was thinking about how good a Wing would be I between sets. So I really regret that one. At the second bar, I chick I recognize but don't know opened me. Her male friends weren't to hot on it though. I couldn't handle them constantly blocking me and looking to start trouble. They backed off as soon as they figured out I didn't give a fuck and was def up for ruining they're night. I fb closed this girl as she was in a hurry to leave. I sent her a message soon after about it was to bad her friends stepped in and ruined what would have been a great night. So after two fails the next two bars were a flop. I was down and out. Need a pep talk about solo sarging!

Try this next time you go out... Start talking to guys first. Find a guy who looks cool to talk to and just get your lips moving for the night. Guys are like ugly girls. Talk about sports and you can probably have a pretty decent conversation. This will give you an opportunity to kinda scope out the bar with out killing the whole place and see which sets you want to work. From there... Now you have someone cool to backwards merge to and bring the girl back to "your friends" (you seem like, from what I read atleast, that you are getting stuck once it comes time to isolate the girl.) and if a set runs dry... You've got some people to go back to so you aren't standing around alone. (a wing man...)

Personally, I prefer going out alone sarging because some of my friends DON'T KNOW WHAT THE FUCK THEY ARE DOING and will actually hurt my game. (the make a circle around the bar, watch the dance floor for a few minutes, and they post up at a table. Game over from there. My social proof is DEAD.) I'm a pretty big fan of RSD and Tyler Durden had some video I saw about "sarging when you are out of state." What I thought was really cool about it is that you can actually FORCE yourself to get back into state if you just OPEN and rely on what you know.

What I just told you is EXACTLY what I do and it works. I can run a room pretty damn good just by talking to guys at first. Because if ALL THE GUYS LIKE YOU... All the girls are gonna like you too.

Don't see tonight as a loss... See it as a learning experience. Hope this helps you out bro.

Bitchin man. Great info. I'm definitely going to keep this in the play book. I appreciate the words of wisdom. The past few weeks I've done something similar. I go out alone, and usually some drunk DDR will bump into me shortly after getting inside somewhere and start chatting to me from there. In those cases I can then relax and scope out the rest of the area. But it makes sense to do what you said just walk up and purposely chat with some guys. I tried using the 3 second rule, but it's tough for me to find a desirable set that quick and I end up walking in and looking over the entire place and blowing the venue.

Also you're right about isolation. I need to practice up on that as well. I'll give this a run tonight and see where it Takes me.

Thanks again man!

LOL ur like me.... I'm picky too. I like finding 4 or 5 GOOD sets to work through the night and work the FUCK out of them instead of bouncing all over the place like some desperate fool. Let me know how this works for you bro.

Ya for sure bro. I need to find a good set of stupid Hott chicks before I move in. If I use the 3 second rule I've ended up with an ug from a amateurs group following me around all night. I think if I can find a couple guys just hanging out and getting drunk I can use them for my prep stage before I find my set.

Hahaha that sounds like a disaster!

Another tip too... Don't get drunk.

I figured this little trick out... Buy redbull from the bar instead. It still looks like you are "drinking" and it makes you LOUD but still tactical and able to function. (and usually the bar tender will only charge me 2 or 3 bucks for the redbull... after about 10 bucks, I feel like I've been cranking coke lines in the bathroom. BABAOWW! LOL)

Haha nice. Good tip for sure. But doesn't a couple of beers loosen you up and get you a bit more relaxed to game?

It does but you then associate being relaxed and confident with alcohol. It will become a crutch. It's better to face your fears sober.

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Another good tip is to do a couple redbull infused shots and then just stick to the real redbull afterward. Clears your head and if you start thinking about your art immediately after taking the shots, it will be more focused for you.

Damn.... you like caffeine huh? lol shit... don't die on us now