To be frank I am not the greatest when it comes to picking up women. Actually I'm pretty bad at it. This isn't about picking up women though. This is about finding places where you'll see women on a regular basis. It's a systematic guide for finding hang out spots.

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My older brother, who IS good at picking up girls, calls me cause he's bad at finding hang out spots. He's asking me how to find places to meet people and hang out. He's telling me how I tend to be really good at that sort of thing but he's not so great at it. He's not talking about hanging out at the bar or some random venue where you gotta pay all the time. He wants to know how to find places like this 24 hour coffee shop I showed him that's got girls and guys coming in and out all the time, you always meet new people and there's always something going on up there. He wants to know how to find those sorts of places. Or how in Oberlin, OH, where we grew up I'd always be around a group of friends hanging out and doing stuff and going to spots where we'd chill. He doesn't know how to find groups like that, he just knows how to get the girl when he finds the girl.


Sr388
Recon.
You wanna do a little recon and info gathering to find out about spots to chill. The bar is often a great place to start, though the bar isn't always where you want to hang out there are people at the bar who know of great places to hang out.

With the bar you go in and talk to people, small talk and jokes and so on. Eventually someone might mention some spot they're about to check out. ASK ABOUT IT!!! Just ask what it is and what's up with the place etc. and they'll usually tell you about it and you can go and chill and you've got another spot. Also, the bar's a great place to find leads on a job.


Skateboarding is something useful for anyone who's into that. When you're out skating you'll often run into other skaters. When you see then go and tag along and travel around with them and check out all the spots they're going to. Doesn't matter if you're skill level is far above theirs or way below it or even if they go to spots with shit you can't even imagine yourself doing anything on. Just chill out and do flat land tricks or whatever and chat and so on. Eventually they'll show you other places to hang out [this is how I met 80% of my friends when I lived in Oberlin]. Those other places are what you want really. Might be chillin' at someone's house. Maybe some cool spot in the woods.

Talking to guys. You bullshit with some random dude. Especially if he's doing something interesting and see what's going on if he's cool. Then you hang out with him. You'll have a new friend and more places to hang out as well. Shit to do also. I've met guys in bars, at the arcade in the mall, while I'm at work, etc.. and we clicked and hung out later. One guy, Ryo, I met in the arcade. He was playing DDR and was rather funny. He did martial arts so I wanted a new sparring partner and someone to learn from and teach to. We hung out later and did just that at his house. We'd hang out here and there and eventually I found out about the 24 hour coffee shop from him. At that place I ended up banging quite a few chicks. That place was crawling with them. Those people showed me other places to hang out, you get the idea.


Aimless wandering.
Go wander around aimlessly and explore your city. See what there is to see. Eventually you'll find something worthwhile and some spot to chill and meet more people.


hope this helps someone

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