Alright dudes, I fucked it up big time. I'll admit that. I'm going to try and make an incredibly long drawn out story short. Basically, I was gaming this girl I work with and at the time she was on the verge of breaking up with a co-worker of ours whom she dated for a year. Anyway, everything went about as good as it could possibly go. Only one problem, every time we tried to have sex there was some kind of interruption. So, needless to say we never fucked. I talked to her about being in a relationship, but she said she wanted to be single for a while. A bummer, but still not a big deal. Regardless, everything was going amazing until about 2 weeks ago when I ran into her and her ex at the store. Oops! After that she got really distant and didn't mention anything about the interaction. No big deal, I honestly didn't give a fuck. I knew it was nothing, and I was right. HOWEVER, it was at that time that I realized I had major NRE (maybe even borderline Oneitis) So, instead of being productive and persistent I did a full 360 to total flaming AFC. I got frustrated with the fact that she was being distant and removed her from some social networking sites. She didn't like that and made it known. So, I explained how I felt and we had a talk about what was going on. Long story short, she said she hasn't been single in a long time and just wants to be platonic friends from here on out. I basically told her to go fuck herself. Not really. I said that I couldn't accept that and that it wouldn't be fair to either of us. I explained I'd still be friendly to her, but I do not want to be "friends." She said she understands and respects my decision. I am going to fuck this girl and I need your help. The way I see it is I have two options.

1. I am leaving the place we both work at in a couple weeks, so I just totally freeze her out and hit her up in a month or two and rekindle the attraction.

2. I become her "friend", act like I don't give a fuck game a million girls in front of her, show her I am willing to keep her around, but no longer interested and wait for her to come to me.

Any other suggestions? Don't say "move on". I'm going to get what I want.

P.S. I'm pretty sure she still has underlying feelings for me or is just hiding them.

P.S.S. I'm not sure if this is the right place for this post. If not please suggest where it be moved to. Thanks!

you COULD do that shit about leaving your workplace, but I don't think anyone deserves that much effort...

what you should do, as 60 years of challenge says

tell her that you can't be near her cause you are horny for her, you only think about fucking her in the ass and that she's not safe around you.

now, this could go 2 ways:
1.- she gets away from you (good)
2.- she still hangs around with you but now she KNOWS what she's getting into (in simple words, she knows she's getting fucked by you)

and dude, have options! you wouldn't care so much about her if you had more options!

success!

You can fuck this girl, I agree. Go to home depot and get a big roll of duct tape. Then google "homemade chloroform recipes"....

Just kidding. Look, it sounds like you really fucked yourself already, went AFC, the girl moved on and got back with her ex. All you can do is try to show high value and make her jealous. Continue to game other girls in front of her and tell her about it. That's pretty much all you can do.

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Well, it's not impossible. Don't go with your option 2, putting yourself voluntarily deeper into the friendzone isn't going to make it better.

My advice is to take some distance off her, then go out there and build your inner game - Go couchsurfing, meet new people, start a new hobby or something. Build some status, get value (as mentioned above) and grow. Yeah, get options, see other women and make sure you have the pics or it didn't happen. Go abroad and game some there.

Then after a while get back to her and work it like a battering ram; Tell her it's all or nothing now, you want her. Say how much you thought of her and what it means to you. You're willing to give it all you've got, make sure she understand that.

As you've taken your sweet time away from her, if she has had underlying feelings, they've come up as you haven't been around and she has had to work on them - women think. Don't cut all ties (facebewks or other contact methods) but avoid replying to her messages as much as possible - You aren't ignoring her, you're busy with an awesome life with your awesome self, if you do decide to reply, make her wait her sweet time and keep it short, don't reveal too much. Also time is precious nowadays.

Puaninja got the hang of it though, duct tape and chloroform, I like your style. Heheh, it's a decent plan B as long as it doesn't come to that.

In short, you should go with your number 1.

Have you considered that maybe she doesn't want to be single just for the sake of being single - Maybe she is afraid of being hurt. You might want to keep this in mind when rekindling attraction. I think it was Osho who said something in the lines of; "One should love in a way that the other feels free."

Just my two cents.

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