I've been involved in the PUA community for a while now and have had success.' Yet I can't shake the uncanning feeling of just laying it in to my ONEITIS on how I felt about her. This is all done on the basis of piece of mind for myself. I expect absolutely NOTHING to come out of this what so ever. It telegraphs too much neediness and puts this girl on a serious pedestal. Yet, the honest and direct tone does gives it some edge. Its actually more for pure amusement. I was bored to day lol. So I wrote this... Now do I press SEND??? Haha.



There is something I want to let you know. A thought that has been on my mind for quite a while and I think its about time I attempt to put this in to words and get this feeling off my chest. Just know that every single word I’m about to say is 100 percent of the truth and there is absolutely nothing I’m going to leave out.

We go back quite a while and just like any gap of time there are ups and downs and I think we’ve had our fair share of both. Since day one, I knew I felt a connection with you deeper then I had felt with anyone else before. With a sense of curiosity, a decided to explore that feeling which led me down a path of confusing twists and turns. As time progressed, those feelings became more concrete and apparent. As you may recall, I did some pretty wild and outrageous things for you. As I approached a fork in the road, a very safe decision was made on my part to suppress those feelings and remain close friends with you. Something I didn’t want to risk loosing at the time. It was quite a selfish decision to make. Yet, those feelings blossomed in to something more substantial and deeper. It’s very difficult for me to in to words. Just know this. I couldn’t help but feel the way I did. You’re an awesome chick I guy is lucky enough to meet once in a lifetime. I thought you should know that. That’s it. No more BS. It was what it was. So go tell all friends, post this on Facebook, I don’t care anymore. I’m comfortable with who I am and how I felt about you. I thought you deserved to know because the time we shared actually meant something to me. I don’t expect anything from you. I perfectly realize this is a pretty crazy, random and irrational move to make but I couldn’t care less. Take this for what it is. That’s all.

yesterday I just run into girl I was soooo into like 4 years ago.
shes not that special anymore. she was just another hb8.
I told her "haha I used to dream u girl. u were like my onitis... ohh why did u flaked me?"
shes "ohhh... i dont know, i was young and stupid.. sorry"

I saw it in her eyes man. she was full of regret. trying to seduce me. but me? nooo. I'm glad
she flaked me. I moved on. I knew this day would come. so do you. there's always better girls.

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Excuse my awful English !!!

One piece of advice man: never write this kind of things, always do it in person. I think this doesnt need any explanation, but still...

1. She cannot kiss you over txt
2. You give her too much time and she can reason her way out of it.

Do no press send. If you have to, print it out and read to her in person.

As I said... I have no HOPES or EXPECTATIONS from this post. Trying to make contact again with this girl... and rekindling things is just taking steps backwards and regressing within my own personal growth. Just knowing that she read it is good enough for me. Its going to ROCK her world though lol.

I told my Oneitis how I felt in a several paragraph message including some of the things I had done to get her attention. She flaked on me; hardcore. She responded with an almost robotic (I swear she had copy and pasted this) response; I backed off a bit and sent a reply; and she looked at it and never said anything again. She flaked on me hardcore and afterwards She thought I was beneath her. I intend to show her the mistake she made. That's one of my motivations; not the best sort, but it's there regardless.

As for your situation; it really depends on the girl. Personally I wish I'd didn't tell this chick right now, but maybe 10 years from now I won't regret it. As it is; I am still semi-into this girl, and I am starting from Peg 1 once again. I don't intend to make the same mistakes though.