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I've been to many nightclubs in the past without a worry, but lately I'm on a run now of 4 bounces in a row (2 without any good reason), and it's just crushing the self esteem.
Clubs get bounce crazy mostly for business reasons. It's (an annoying) strategy to make them seem more "exclusive" in an attempt to attract more business, and/or to keep out people they think won't spend as much money.
Unless you know your personal style needs work, don't bother putting the energy and money there--the two best ways to avoid this outcome are...
1) bring at least 1 girl to the club with you, doesn't matter if she is smoking hot, doesn't matter if she is interested in any of the dudes you are with;
2) get to know at least one club worker (bouncer, bar tender, waitress, doesn't matter, and make him/her your new fucking best friend.