Okay, I saw some pictures, and @Yoda, you could use a bit of a makeover. I'm not sure what your normal going out wear is, but make sure that it fits (tight!). No loose clothing. Your neck makes you look a bit older, use a scarf/shawl to cover that up.

Those are the only things that I have to say. You are for sure not ugly, in the contrary, with the right style of clothing, you can look like the Italian Casanova that you are.

No way that anyone that I know would see you as an Arab, you are to obviously Italian.

I would say, ask a (female) friend with a very good taste of shopping to dress you up a bit and you're good to go.

Further, make sure to walk confident, not like a boxer who just won a match with an angry face. But smile, make a genuine smile, think about something funny. Nobody knows that you're making the smile just to smile. They all think that you have a great time!

@Yoda - Have you ever been in a relationship with a girl before or ever slept with a girl that was not a hooker?

The guy in the video has 4 arms and 3 legs starting at 0:43

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SpZhjCaT5og[/youtube]

He has a wife who loves him. He isn't handsome. He's poor. Of course, his wife isn't an HB10, but she's normal. Now, what's your excuse for not taking charge of your life, hmm?

Don't tell me he has two dicks.

Its a little sad to see this because all guys have felt this way at one time or another. Looks do matter at first you're right. HOWEVER you can EASLY overcome this with confidence and personality. Im average as fuck like a 6 at best only quality i have is im tall 6'3 and white. But im really out of shape i could be described as "skinny-fat" Long thin arms and legs with NO muscles and fat belly and man boobs ... i havent worked out in 5 years.... YET I still get HB9 - HB9.5s all the time. I make ok money but not rich at all... im not even a good talker or super whitty. So how do i get super HBs?
im 28, I make TONS of friends everywhere i go... i know everyone, make TONS of girlfriends that are just friends, I just talk to girls, dont even spit game, just talk, go friendzone with a lot of them... They invite me places, they trust me... then I meet their hot friends.... their friends say nice things about me... then i run game on their hot friends... WIN.... popularity is a powerful thing. Dont think it stops in highschool. It works in Bars/clubs/parties too.
So my advice to you... go meet some younger people, non PUAs, guys and girls in their 20s, become friends... the rest will take care of itself. Dont let age stop you my best friend is 45 year old mexican guy 5'8 175 .... he gets more pussy then you can even imagine and hes not rich at all. In fact last weekend he slept with a mom and daughter 3some LOL one HB7.5 and one HB8 hahaha Hes a natural doesnt know about this PUA stuff tho.

Everyone else has pretty much summed things up here, my friend.
If this is what you truly believe though - I'd suggest Russian Bride!!

I disagree when it comes to only going for milfs. Most hot milfs are looking for money and status and a good mate to settle down with because they are like a ticking clock and time is running out. Younger girls don’t always care. Also, those 20 year olds, some have single parents you never know. From experience with my 45 year old friend, he dressed like us, hung out with us and banged as many girls in their 20-30 as us.. most of them hot. Young girls LOVE older guys even if they don’t have money they think they have more experience. So he spent a year just sleeping with HBs and then he found a HB8 Milf that’s 40 hes been seeing for 6 months.

Also if the OP is so worried about his hair he can get hair implant surgery, its really not that expensive and really really worth it.

Worst is to just do nothing and give up, 40 is still pretty young you have many many years and women ahead of you, you just have to work to better yourself and gain confidence.

What chief brought is right on, your reality does not mean is factual, i used to think i was hideous, I was getting girls and i was, like why the fuck they like me, then Vin Diesel came along, and people started confusing me, i was like oh shit maybe i do not look so bad... Dude, your perception will be your reality, i dated a lebanese woman and her brother and her friends got tons of girls and they were not that good looking, i think the problem may be you are used to paying for hookers, and now you have a bad habit, is so much easier to pay a hooker than to put the work, effort, rejection, hustle, dissapointments i can go on and on and on that goes along with getting good with women, which i believe is a super important part of life, if not the most important, since 90% of happiness imo is determined of who you choose as a partner... The paying for hookers can be addictive, and is the easy way out, you may be hooked to do like a drug... And you may be making all this excuses to justify, your paying for hookers, since is easier, is like a fat person, that find every excuse not to work out, and rationilize the excuses, since is easier to be fat eating macdonalds that go through all the hustle of working out, get it...

This is the biggest fucking chodey topic on this entire forum. Yoda, you have every excuse in the book. Send me your fucking picture so I can see what is so god damn hideous about you. Seriously. Like no, fucking seriously. If you truly are giving me this bullshit, I swear to god I will come on here and actually deem you the world's first man that proves pick-up is a scam if you are that fucking hideous that I'd actually believe every god damn woman on this planet of fucking EARTH would turn you down.

Before I make my post, I'll firstly introduce myself, I am an older guy (I am in my 40's), and have never really had any luck with women. I am not a virgin, and my only sex with women has been with hookers. Unfortunately my race and ugly looks have written me off in the dating game, but that's life, and before you accuse me of being too picky, I rarely approach hot looking women as they are out of my league, and they would reject me instantly. I have approached about 200 odd women in my lifetime, but I have given up, and have resigned myself to dying alone.

Anyway, the reason I am making the post is because I am seriously challenging this idea from the PUA industry that looks don't matter when it comes to attraction, because in my experience LOOKS is the major thing women go for, followed closely by money,fame and bad boy personna.

To qualify the above, why is it that in virtually every social situation I have observed where men and women interact, the best looking guys would end up picking up the girl without fail. Sure there are exceptions to this, and the odd ugly guy may get lucky, but for the most part if you don't pass the looks test with a woman, it's GAME OVER, and no amount of game or any other of that PUA quackery will change her mind.

I will probably get banned for this post, but fuck it, I can discredit PUA teachings and the whole PUA industry so easily it's not even funny, and no I am not a troll, I am deadly serious.

No, I have never had a girlfriend, and I have never been married, all of my sexual experience, with one exception has been paid for. There was this one hooker who took a liking to me, and on several occasions I saw her outside of her work, we had sex and she did not charge me for it. On each occasion she paid for the date (that was very nice of her), and one time she took me to a secluded beach, where we had a picnic and had sex on the beach.

Before you freak out and call me a loser, and social misfit, there are many men like me, I am what you would call Involuntary Celibate, and no I don't chase supermodels or HB9'S or 10's, never have.

I base my beliefs on what actually happened to me when on the rare occaision I did approach a hot looking woman, ie. I was greeted with instant fuck off signals, the silent SPAM and dirty looks. The fact is, and whether you like it or not, you have to compete against better looking men, and sadly I have to say an ugly or average looking guy competing for women with a good looking dude, is analgous to putting up a World War 2 spitfire against a modern day F18 Fighter Jet, who do honestly believe is going to win that dog fight?