This is the question that separates the good from the best and there is only one answer ( as far as I know ).

What is the structure for getting "your own" threesomes ?

This is something that was incredibly easy to fuck up. I had many more "near threesome" experiences then the actually thing.

I found from my experience the best way to get a threesome was to engage both women at the same time and equally. It often involved alcohol and heavy sexual questioning before it ever commenced. One common test I would do to see if It was in fact possible was to try and convince two girls to make out. I found girls were either dead set against it or all for it. ( there was rarely an in between) I would not even consider attempting a threesome if I could not at least get this to happen. The more they were into it, the better the chances were.

I also found that it will not work if one girl has already expressed interest in you. Most friends, will respect that the other girl likes you and stay away.

In my opinion it is critical to find a fresh set, and work on them at the same time. If you have already been working one girl, it is very hard to convince her that you want her friend to get involved ( this will often lead to jealousy and the girl thinking you are more attracted to her friend and are just trying to include her to not be rude and because you are already dealing with her). That being said, find a fresh set of girls that you have not yet engaged.


When it comes to threesomes, it really does matter the situation you are in. If it's a college frat party, its not so uncommon. If it's with two professional women the game it would seem a lot harder. So that being said, I will just tell you what has happened in my experiences, I have had a few threesomes in my life and they were very different from one another based on the SPAM.



When attempting 3somes that involved the girl i was dating and another one. These never seemed to end well. I tried it on 2 different occasions with two different girls I was dating. ( it was in fact their idea's) We went out for the sole purpose of finding another girl to join us, both times my girl did the work and picked up a hot chick. The only problem was, to me this was fresh meat. As we started to get into it, I tended to give the other girls too much attention and it resulted in my girl getting upset and eventually stopping the 3 way action to deal with her being upset. It actually happened the exact same way with both girls.

When attempting a 3-some that involves your girlfriend, try to be aware and not give the other girl too much attention.

College style 3-way. this is the most common and easiest, I have found and usually involved a lot of alcohol. Although I never went out with the intention of trying for a threesome, it would sometimes present itself as a possibility. there are specific things one can look for when it comes to a potential threesome.

Look for: Girls in sets of two, girls that are acting sexual( dancing with one another/grinding...etc) Girls that feed off one another conversation wise.( showing they are close friends) And just generally horny chicks that are open and sexual.

In my experiences what I have learned is to be sexually challenging while engaging them. ( asking them if they ever had a threesome, or if they ever fantasized about it. etc etc. I often would suggest that I could more then handle two of them at once and they would be blown away at what just one man could do for the both of them. Isolation is key. If I found two girls with the potential for a threesome I would immediately try to get them alone. ( their place or mine)

The conversation would never shy away from sex and sexuality. I found that you need to keep the fire hot. Truth or Dare is a great way to keep the fire lit and begin with sexual activity.

There is other games you can play, but the key here is to keep it sexual at all times. Strip poker/ drinking games/ 20 questions.

It is important to create sexual attraction in a group mentality, so doing things like a strip tease for the both of them or challenging them to see who you think is a better kisser. etc. Keeping them engaged equally is essential.


The bottom line here is that both women have to find you attractive, you cannot show one more attention then the other and you must be aggressive. Women are all over the map emotionally, they change their minds faster then they can say it. With that in mind, it is essential too keep the fire hot and make it fun. If you can successfully initiate sexual contact with both women at once, it is important to keep it balanced at first, if you kiss one girl for 10 seconds, kiss the other girl for 10 seconds. etc etc. If you can get them to engage each other sexually, let them do all the work, wait for them to work themselves up then join in. ( it makes things a lot easier)

I do have more to say on this topic, but unfortunately I have run out of time, if you want to know more, let me know and I will gladly share my experiences when i come back online.

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In this world,all the womans are 3some bitch material,yes,sharing the man they´re attracted with another female is theyr biggest dream in life

First of all I do not need advice.
Everything you posted is true and can relate to it , yet the effectiveness of those techniques rarely pay of.

I have had 19 threesomes so far and again everyone will raise the question ... HOW ?

The structure I use since for the moment I am not interested in going on dates is this :

ONE NIGHT STAND ( after sex I bring up the option of us having a relation based on sex and RESPECT ) -->

FUCK BUDDY ( I explore her sexuality , seeking to fulfill the woman's desire and also my desires ; introduce the idea of a threesome ) -->

THREESOME ( I use the pattern with every fuck buddy and then arrange a get together )

COMMUNICATION AND HONESTY (honesty ONLY about your desires)

For all the pathetic losers out there the truth is NOT ALL one night stands turn into fuck buddies and also not all fuck buddies want a threesome.

Just like everything in life ... you have to work hard to get to this level.

Enjoy life !

I have a question

I personally think I've been an asshole to a girl I really liked and I need a way to say sorry over phone or text preferably a phone call any suggestions I'm guessing you may have been in a similar situation?

- iTwitch

Omg! so you post a question, to brag on your threesome skills, lol! and then you post with your weak technique, nice! but congrats on your 19 so call three somes, there are way better ways and easier ways than what you just posted.

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Hey, this is good. So you're calling bs. Why not offer some reasons now? And if you think that there are better methods, why not post a quick alternative? It doesn't take a whole page . . .

1. Stelar bragged about one particular thing and took up a third of a page to do it.
2. The addict is continuing to brag about everything having to do with pick up and beyond throughout 25 pages of blabbering.
3. Stelar's short explanation of his method is a. to the point. b. simple. c. and at the very least plausible.
4. The addict's rendition of his 'method', is like everything else he posts. 90% wasted space filled with, "this is this and that is that so I'd do it like this and it could be like that, college is like this . . . (College for him was 20 years ago) 10% of it is an embarrassment.
5. Are you insinuating that the addict's 'method' is more realistic or likely? Seriously? I'd love to hear your reasoning for this one. . .

19 is an impressive number.


I know you were not asking for advice, I didn't mean for it to come off like that, I guess it's just habit in this thread.

I also was assuming you mean't pick up threesomes, as in not knowing the girls intimately already.

I can totally relate to your methods. They seem possibly valid. Getting into a womans mind and exploring her sexuality( while continuing to be intimate with her) then presenting a threesome makes alot of sense. Unfortunately, My patterns would limit me to do such methods as for the most part, I didn't keep girls around for very long. I usually just got deep with them to get the goods, after that I really didn't care to explore them anymore.

You sound like you know what you are talking about. It would be interesting to hear more about your method for threesomes. I never really got into hunting 3 somes, I kind of just kept an open eye for the opportunities and pounced when i saw them.

This is an avenue I would be interested in knowing more about.

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How do you expect anybody to take you seriously with this bs? If you don't know it, why not just admit it? There are plenty threads in this forum where I just give a thumbs up and just watch instead of commenting. . . it's because with many threads and its topics, I have no clue. You have no clue about this particular topic (as well as 99% of of what's in your own thread) but instead of shutting up, you act like a 10 year old explaining to the principal why he was fighting at recess. "This is this, that is that so I did this and it could be that . . ." - Most interestingly, you don't even seem to understand the concept of self mockery.
LOL?
LOL? This is a tough call. Am I insulting you more than you are insulting yourself? By the way, as an alpha massage therapist, who do you actually lead? That's the definition of the word, correct? Do you 'lead' the laundry guy around? 1. Massage therapists are cool. 2. You have the character of an untalented con-man. 3. You have the intelligence of a broccoli.
And in the real World, people like you get fired from job to job until they end up finding a solo gig.
I see . . . so that's why you tell them to run around in circles and stare at women and to ask girls for fashion tips. So in 25 pages of this cheese, you weren't able to find one poster who could 'handle' your real game?
If you want to be praised, write something worthy of praise. If you don't want to be critiqued, don't write. If you take up 25 pages to write bs, expect to be called on it. This is the way any community functions.
Not true. I could paste all of your "I do this and I do that" in one page and create a comedy routine out of it.
Negative experience for who? Wherever you go, you will offer them your bullshit and make it a negative experience for all. Mostly, it will always be a negative experience for yourself.

By the way, why don't you take this guy on his offer? He's a newbie who probably can't 'handle' your game but it would be fun to tutor him a bit, no? I'm offering 20 to 1 that the addict is a no show. . .

For my part, I suppose I'll have to take some guy around me around. Let me know if anybody's interested.

Interesting read if anybody is wondering how a 38 year old man can be so delusional:
http://www.catholiceducation.org/articl ... d0001.html

And as much as I respect Ryan's intentions, it's the reason why I am not a fan of:

direct-vs-indirect-the-truth-revealed-vt126611.html

@KASABI NOT YELLING READ MY ANSWER NEXT TO YOUR SENTENCES MY STYLE:

Hey, this is good. So you're calling bs. Why not offer some reasons now? And if you think that there are better methods, why not post a quick alternative? It doesn't take a whole page . . .

1. Stelar bragged about one particular thing and took up a third of a page to do it.PEOPLE THAT BRAG USUALLY HAVE NOT GAME! PLUS WHY WASTE SEXADDICT TIME, I THINK SEX ADDICT DID NOT KNOW IT WAS SOME MR. COOL TRYING TO SAY I CAN DO IT BETTER THAN YOU, HE PROBABLY THOUGHT WAS A NEWBE
2. The addict is continuing to brag about everything having to do with pick up and beyond throughout 25 pages of blabbering. I HAVE READ THE 25 PAGE I HAVE NOT SEEN HIM BRAG ONCE, BUT MAYBE IS ME, HE IS HAPPY OF WHAT HE THINK IS A GREAT AND UNUSUAL ACCOMPLISHMENT... WHO CARES!
3. Stelar's short explanation of his method is a. to the point. b. simple. c. and at the very least plausible. A BUNCH OF MUMBU JUMBU TYPICAL OF THE COMMUNITY I DID NOT LEARN A THING IN WHAT HE EXPLAIN, IT WAS MORE LIKE I AM COOL I HAD 19 3 SOMES, I DO NOT LIKE 3 SOMES BUT HAVE HAD THEM AND EVEN MY SYSTEM FOR 3 SOME IS EASIER, NOT TELLING ANYBODY TO DO IT SINCE HAS TO BE CONGRUENT I WILL EXPLAIN THAT LATER...
4. The addict's rendition of his 'method', is like everything else he posts. 90% wasted space filled with, "this is this and that is that so I'd do it like this and it could be like that, college is like this . . . (College for him was 20 years ago) 10% of it is an embarrassment. IT MAY BE BUT THAT IS HIS PROBLEM, YOU ARE MORE EMBARRASSING WORRYING CONSTANTLY ABOUT ANOTHER DUDE POST, AND IF YOU READ HIS GETTING OUT OF FRIENDZONE RESPONSES ONE OF THE BETTER SHIT I HAVE SEEN, SAME WITH OTHER STUFF THAT HE HAS ANSWER WHY DON'T YOU FOLLOW YOUR OWN ADVISE AND GIVE YOUR OPINION AS I WILL DO ON HOW TO GET 3 SOMES INSTEAD OF HITTING AND RUNNING, AND TOTALLY TAKING OUT OF CONTEXT LIKE " THE DAILY SHOW" OR "FOX NEWS" WHAT THIS DUDE IS WRITING...
5. Are you insinuating that the addict's 'method' is more realistic or likely? Seriously? I'd love to hear your reasoning for this one. . .HE FUCKED 800 GIRLS, SO SOMETHING HE MUST BE DOING RIGHT... HOW MANY GIRLS HAVE YOU FUCKED? AND WHAT IS YOUR PROOF KASABI????

HERE IS MY SYSTEM FOR 3 SOMES, AND I KNOW YOU WILL RIP IT APART KASABI, BUT I CAN CARE LESS(FOR MORE ON THAT READ MY SIGNATURE)

THE BEST WAY TO GET A GIRL TO HAVE A 3 SOME OR GO TO SWINGCLUBS OR DO ANY TYPE OF CRAZY SHIT, IS TO MAKE IT HER IDEA, HER FANTASY, HER SUGGESTION, WHATEVER, SUBTLE, DO NOT MAKE IT YOUR IDEA, THIS IS KEY!


Step 1: the girl is invested in you, and you fucked her, she likes you a lot(if you got game that should be any fucking girl, if you don't you probably won't understand)

step2.- during bluff, sex talk, or whatever, you will ask if she has been with other women yes or not? 3 possible answer yes(good experience), yes(bad experience) and no(never done it)... if she said, yes, you will act all exited and horny( i do a lot of acting like a pervet, you do not have to do that,this is what i do) and ask for details, if it was a great experience she by telling it and you getting exited(jerk of to her explaining or if you have clothes grab squeeze your dick)she will re live it in her head... If yes(bad experience), you find out why? and then you convince her that it was the wrong girl, situation blah blah, gaming(sales), and then you will make it sound the experience you or your ex or any girl the best shit she ever experience(multiple orgasoms, squirting blah balh), and it was because it was with YOU.. but you will act exited no matter what, then to kill jealousy, bad experience, whatever, you will convince her that the girl will not mean anything she is just kind of a "vibrator and extra, a toy, nothing real" extra help(this i use with steady relationships), for example "when i am doing you missionary she can play with you clit and nipple or whatever), always about her nothing about you, if she has never been with a girl you bring the topic to masturbation, "oh you never masturbated thinking about other women?" she most likely say yes, you bs her women are better at oral blah blah, most girls are curious, even if they say no, the key with the never been with the woman girl is repetition( eventually you will talk about it enough not pushy to make it her idea)... i have done this many time but 3 somes not my thing( boring to me).. Also the birthday present line works wonders(and do half of the work, but you can not be lazy you still got it make it her idea), remember you can bs about you birthday date(girls invested in you will forgive you for misinformation, specially if you fuck them good)... now the easiest way is to take them to a swinclub, no girl will agree to that right out of the back so do not use the word, swinclub... after all the curiosity is built you will be a LEADER, and say i have a surprise for you, dress super sexy, and go to a HIGH CLASS, swingclub is basically a regular club, and in the back you change clothes(naked), and there easy to have a 3 some or multiple 3 somes, no matter if you been in a swingclub 500 times never admit it act like you are surprise and is your first time there.... Here is the one i go to:

http://trapezeclub.com/

scenario number 2 is club dancing with a bit of alcohol and/or female friends and alcohol, there is no routine or nothing special it will just happen, just make sure you always pay more attention and bust to the main girl...

scenario 3 strip club: if you girl is hot enough the stripper will want to fuck her, most strippers are bi...


sorry for my lack of mental masturbation!

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360.

In regards to your defense of the addict, he says he F'd 800. Throughout his entire thread, there is nothing that would lead me to believe he's ever gamed over a few times. If you can spot ANYTHING in his thread that would lead you to believe he has any understanding for this, let me know.

In regards to any 'proof', there is none. Nobody online has any 'proof'. Which is why I offered to take somebody around. If you've read a few of my posts, you'd have an idea that I know something about the topic. And as I wrote to you before, if you see something 'weak', please call me out on it and offer your reason.

And why would you automatically think that I would shred up your 'system for 3's'? If you've read any of my posts, you'd know that I offer plenty virtual high fives. What you just wrote is a better explained version of stelar's flow chart: 1. ONS. 2. FB. 3. 3some. That's what you're doing . . . and it's good. Your first example is a better method than your second, which is why I suppose you posted it first. Although I'd argue in step 1. this idea flies much better before she's invested into you too much and before she likes you too much. And absolutely correct about this whole thing being all about her.

*How can you possibly write what you just did, read what the addict just wrote, and not call bs?

All though we are not in the same city we are close. I am available this saturday. PM me and we can work out meeting up.

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I wish I could teleport myself to the states I'd love to see you guys in action! I'm looking forward to the field reports

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

1. Yes , I am bragging, because again only I know the sacrifices I made.
2. I do not go to swingers clubs because I actually use pick-up to boost my ego. (read field reports)
3. I "instrument" my "OWN" 3some's from the women I chose.
4. You have to grow to get to this level, you have much to learn and you are not in a position to criticize me.
5. This is the last reply you will get from me.

... the fuck, why dont you all calm down a bit.
I thought this forum is about GETTING PUSSY, not BEING a PUSSY when it comes to tolerating the sucess of other people here.

I have some questions for you, SexAddict

1.) How do you deal with aggressive AMOG´s / Cockblockers who will fuck up your whole set when you´re finally talking / escalating with girls?
2) How do you recognize horny girls in a club?
Any suspicious pattern of behaviour here?
3) I often get rejections from girls when being very direct, is it because of wrong screening / observing?


Thanks in advance,

Baxxter