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No, I am not looking for a pat on the back or any ones sympathy, I don't deserve it, don't want it, and don't need it. And it's funny how you mentioned suicide, I know of men (not personally) who have taken their own lives because they couldn't attract women, and I honestly believe many men who do take their own lives do so because they are lonely and feel helpless.
I do have good social skills, I used to work in a job where I had to deal with all types of people, so I had to know how to both relate and communicate with people, and although I am normally a pretty shy and reserved person, but once I get to know them I do open up and I can talk the legs off a chair. But communication is a two way street, what good are my conversational skills if a woman I am talking to is turning her back on me?, gives me the silent SPAM?, and makes no attempt to participate in the conversation? What you PUAs don't understand is that you cannot force a woman to like you, if a woman is giving me bad body language, she is a non verbal way telling me to get lost, and when that has happened to me, I got the message real fast and walked away, what else can you do? (and no, it wasn't one of those mythical shit tests you PUAs go on about).
With regards to improving my looks,as I have mentioned previously I have lost a lot of weight by going to the gym and eating right, and for my age I at least have a decent body, where most other men have beer bellies or are obese.
Dude then
what are you looking for with your OP? Cuase it looks like you're just looking to blow off steam or for people to agree with you.
Personally, I don't know you, I only know what you wrote; and that's what
you want people to know of you. I know you're insecure and have low self-esteem. The
reasons why you do would probably best be handled by a professional therapist and not on an internet forum (no disrespect to this forum I think it's great).
And personally, if
what you have written is
true and you have only slept with prostitutes in your life, then you definitely need professional help. Because, you weren't always 40-something and you weren't always bald. You were younger once. So these are just things that have
come with time but have not changed the fact that you cannot interact with women.
And if I choose to believe you and believe you have good social skills, I'll say you are (curiously) over-estimating yourself in this respect. Because from how you have interacted with a lot of helpful people over the last 10 pages, you have only showed
confrontational skills. And if this is also how you also interact with women, then your lack of success comes as no surprise to me. Don't blame it on anythng else.
Seek help dude not argumentes and open your mind. Peace.
Thanks Dr Phil, and no I don't need therapy or any of your shaming langauge and insults. I know how to interact with women, or anybody else for that matter, I have mainly worked with women most of my life, and got along with virtually all of them famously.
I am not confrontational at all, but at the same time I am not someone who gets brainwashed easily, unlike many of these PUA fanboys who claim they are good with women, but probably couldn't score a fuck in a brothel with fist full of fifties, at least I am honest about my cursed luck with women.
What's wrong with seeing prostitues?, they provide a coping mechanism for lonely men like me, and contrary to media stereotypes most men who see hookers are actually married men, and whenever I see hookers I treat with the upmost respect and kindness and they appreciate that.
But to answer your intial question, all I have wanted in life is to meet one woman (I am not player, casanova, serial womaniser etc), that I could settle down with and enjoy a happy relationship, I am not looking for a HB10 or a supermodel, as these women are out of my league, but I value a womans personality more than her looks.
There are many men in my predicament, I know of 40 to 50+ year old men who are virgins, or have never had girlfriends, and no, they are not deformed, smell bad or are creeps, they are just decent guys who have simply been dealt a bad hand in life (like I have). It seems that as a man if you admit to being challenged by dating, the PUA industry, its fanboys, women and society unfairly demonise you and slander you with insults and shaming language.
The old saying that "there's someone for everybody" is a myth, and sadly some men through no fault of their own, will die alone.
CHAT
