How are you not Racist ?

Paramount. If you'd just stop making excuses for why your life sucks and focus on improving it it wouldn't suck that much. That's all I have to say in this topic...

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

I usually would not question who someone finds attractive, but in your case I feel I have to comment.

Paramount would u find members of your own race attractive, because if u don't that may make u racist. How insecure will u make Indian women feel.

Surely if u moved to India half billion Indian women will want u. U would be top of the food chain. No other race will be able to compete with u.

Or do u only value what non-Indian women desire.

Ask yourself how many people in your life u make smile, and laugh, because if u don't that is all the feedback u will need to adapt.

U are not even ashamed to hate your own race so openly. U r like proud of it. I might even think that u know very little of your Indian heritage.

People have given u good advice, but u only want to hear what your passive aggressive mind wants to hear.

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Don't start this thread again. Seriously. Paramount told us he is undergoing a transformation and that he is going to build confidence and peace in himself.

Thus no reason to start this convo again here. Also, if Paramount truly meant what he said, he doesn't need this thread anymore.

Because of these 2 reasons. I think that this thread should be definately closed.

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Wish u luck Paramount.

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Excuse me for not reading through all 9 pages pf posts. I want to throw in my two cents.

I'm mixed race. It goes to my advantage. My name alone is called sexy. I used to believe it was a bad thing, therefore it was. Now I KNOW it's a wonderful thing therefore it is.

I know a girl who told me that she never liked indian guys, until she met one who... "seemed different" "there was something about him" "he was super smart" "he had a good sense of humor" ect.

Ever since she met this guy she had a thing for Indian guys. She said I reminded her of him... pua perhaps? Something to thing about.

Have fun with your negative beliefs. I'm enjoying my positive beliefs.

I tought the same thing about asian women, they go googoogaga over white guys and some black guys, but won't date their own ethnic (just some in the US, not all).. and how asian males are usually depicted in hollywood movies about being weak, or controlling, or small penises (like The Hangover II and the asian guy in the last Transformers), and this grows in the mindset of asian american females. I tought it can be tough for a nice asian american guy to get a girl unless hes a typical bald tatted thug asian dude or something.. But look at Bruce lee, he married a white woman. lol

But in all honesty, American media stereotypes asian and indian males as nerdy, weak etc .

Just gotta be the best you can be to prove this wrong and let the people you meet in life know you are not that.

Race is as big a deal as you make it. I'm ethnically mixed raced, and I've only ever slept with white girls - I'm only attracted to blondes. It never even crosses my mind that I'm a different colour to the girl, if she rejects me it's because my approach wasn't good enough, I tried to escalate too quickly, or some other reason.

If you want to overcome your insecurity, try to remove any thoughts about your colour out of your mind - my attitude is that if your colour doesn't bother you, then it won't bother her either. You'll simply be an attractive, charming guy who makes her feel good about herself, and who she has fun with. The fact that you're different colours won't factor in to the equation unless you let it.

If you do meet a girl who's genuinely racist, and rejects you based on your colour, then that's entirely her issue and she's definitely not worth wasting your time with. Go find the next girl, and keep on living it up - life's too short to let being a different colour on the palette hold you back

Alright, Matador is a co-founder of MMethod, he's been on The PUA (both season 1 & 2). This guy is indian. He's fucking brilliant at PUA.

Matador hides his ethnic background very well.

There is only one line in the book the GAME, where he tells Mystery "that guys in India would bow down to him".

He mentions things about having samoan friends, as though associating with a much more cool and masculine ethnic group.

If anyone can clearly find anywhere that he admits that he is indian I will be impressed. Being ashamed of your own background is no big deal. Its not a new concept.

Also matador is a body builder, this build is not associated with non whites, as the modern body builder is a western body type. It is associated with looking western.

I like matador, please do not get me wrong. But I bet if he was Italian or even Brazilian then he would be milking it for all its worth.

Then again I can only guess he must actually be samoan.

I have to admit that if matador was to be Indian and admit to it. Indians everywhere will have their status elevated. Lets not forget that Neil Strauss of all places in the world went sarging in Bangladesh.

I will be honest. If matador admits his own ethnic group it will make me feel slightly more confident. But the question remains is he masking his culture or is he actually using the rich Indian culture in his PUA arsenal, like being a KAMA SUTRA expert.

Millions of back packers got to GOA - INDIA, surely they have must have a thing for the local men.

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race doesn't matter guys. I'm an indian and kiss-closed couple of hot white bitches when i was working in U.K.

This thread shouldn't even exist. Plain and simple. As much as these thoughts and insecurities should be forgotten, so should this thread. My foreign ass has got some women to game.

my insecurity is pretty much dead, have done a lot of approaches and have gone on a few dates, thanks guys for taking your time with me

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

Im Indian and I haven't had thoughts about Indians being hated since I was 15. Its all in your head.

When I was 19 I thought I was losing hair. I walked around thinking what people are thinking about losing my hair. One day I got a new haircut and haven't worried about it since. Race is the same, its an issue if you make it one.