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Master Yoda is just looking for a pat on the back. It's like a guy who calls somebody to tell them he's going to kill himself, he doesnt really want to do it, he just wants someone to talk him out of it and prove his worth to him.
He's arguing here cause deep inside he wants to believe it, he's just not convinced.
Sometimes it takes alot of transformation to start getting women, other times it doesnt take much at all.
if your ugly, there still has to be something you can do to be less ugly. Change your hair, get your teeth fixed and whitened. Ud be amazed what a white smile can do for your prospects.
Then there is getting in shape and learning how to talk to women.
It's not an overnight fix. A few lines are not going to do anything. You have to be something women want, your job is to figure out how to do that.
Remember one woman, is more than you have had already. so you can only improve from there.
Just set realistic goals. Talk to any woman who will talk to you and make small leaps until you get more confident.
Or show us a picture of yourself, we'll tell you how dire your situation is.
No, I am not looking for a pat on the back or any ones sympathy, I don't deserve it, don't want it, and don't need it. And it's funny how you mentioned suicide, I know of men (not personally) who have taken their own lives because they couldn't attract women, and I honestly believe many men who do take their own lives do so because they are lonely and feel helpless.
I do have good social skills, I used to work in a job where I had to deal with all types of people, so I had to know how to both relate and communicate with people, and although I am normally a pretty shy and reserved person, but once I get to know them I do open up and I can talk the legs off a chair. But communication is a two way street, what good are my conversational skills if a woman I am talking to is turning her back on me?, gives me the silent SPAM?, and makes no attempt to participate in the conversation? What you PUAs don't understand is that you cannot force a woman to like you, if a woman is giving me bad body language, she is a non verbal way telling me to get lost, and when that has happened to me, I got the message real fast and walked away, what else can you do? (and no, it wasn't one of those mythical shit tests you PUAs go on about).
With regards to improving my looks,as I have mentioned previously I have lost a lot of weight by going to the gym and eating right, and for my age I at least have a decent body, where most other men have beer bellies or are obese.
No not sympathy, but your looking for a reason to believe anybody here has something you can use, and your getting all your doubts about it out and hoping someone can convince you otherwise.
Not all women turn their back on you, that is rediculous. That kind of shit happened in high school, most grown women wont turn their back on you.
If you can honestly say that if you walked up to a woman in a mall, and she wouldnt even listen to your question, shed run away before you said a word, then Ill let you bury yourself now.
But we both know thats not the case. Weve all had women make us feel like we are shit, weve all had women who thought we ugly, boring, etc,
There are millions of women in the world. They dont all act the same, they dont all think the same, they dont all react to men the same.
Im going to give you a starter kit right now. For the next month, wheverever you go, store, bank, work, driving. Wherever you see a woman make eye contact, smile, and say hi.
I started out doing that, and I felt like the biggest dick in the world. Im like right, women love me, they are dying to have me smile at them.
But I was amazed, at how many return smiles and hi's I got back. A smile is a hard thing for a woman to resist, regardless of who you are or what you look like.
Smiling makes an impression on people, in this case women.
So your project for the nest month is to make eye contact, smile and say hi to by any and all women who pass by you on any given day.
Your results will look something like this:
50% will keep walking and ignore you.
25% will smile back, and keep walking.
20% will smile back and say hi back.
5 % will smile say hi, and may actually want to talk.
Now, I dont want to hear it wont work. Theres nothing to work, all you are doing is showing women you are a warm person.
And the real reason for doing it is to see that women are not the animals you think they are. You are basing your thoughts on even a small sampling of 100 women u have come in contact with over the tears.
Trust me, not all women are that bad.
But once you do this for a month, report back, and Ill reveal step 2.
And if u come back with lame results, ill know u didnt do it. just do it.
CHAT
