This is literally a copy and pasting of all the notes I have ever taken about pickup. I hope you all can get something out of it, and feel free to add to it if you have something you'd like to share!
GAME
ATTRACTION SWITCHES
1. Preselection
2. Leader of men
3. Protector of loved ones
4. The willingness to emote
MULTIPLE THREADING ROUTINE
Hey let's try an experiment for shits and giggles. Think of a number in your mind from 1-4. The first number that pops into your head. Got it? (move your hand from left as you say 1 to right as you say 4. When you say "pops" snap where the three would go.) Don't say it, just picture it. (It will be 3. )I want you to think of a different number, this time between 1-10. (Do the same thing except the new number will be 7.)
INSERT SUB ROUTINES BELOW BETWEEN GAMES
What do you got going for you other than your looks? I mean you're very beautiful but beauty is common. What's really rare is a great outlook, energy, personality. You got two or three, it's a good start.
What do you want to be when you grow up? And don't say princess. I mean you can be anything with no chance of failure, what would you want to be? A nurse? No fucking way. I actually dated a nurse. I loved that. I can't even talk to you now. (Then finish first routine.) 7.
THE MYSTERY METHOD
1. Approach - recite opener or two. Open entire group. Ignore target for most part.
2. Neg - neg target, get friends to agree.
3. DHV to group - do this using stories, magic, ancedotes and humor. Pay more attention to men and less attractive women.
4. Neg again - (if appropriate) OMG she's so grabby! How do you roll with her?
5. Ask - So how does everyone know each other?
6. Isolate - Isolate target. Look for IOIs and start kino escalation.
7. Fascinate - You need to fascinate target with magic, ESP test, the cube, etc.
8. Qualify - Make her qualify to you. Say, "Beauty is common but what do you have to make me more attracted to you as I get to know you?" or some variation of that. If she begins naming qualities, that's an IOI.
9. Stop - Just stop talking. Does she initate convo again? Does she say somthing that begins with "So?" If yes, that's another IOI.
10. Kino - Once you have 3 IOIs you may begin kino escalation.
11. FTC - Give FTC (False Time Constraint) and close. (N-Close or K-Close)
TO MAINTAIN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP
End every night with positive emotions. They will feel those same emotions in the morning and makes starting the day off well much much easier.
IMPORTANT!
Maintain a strong Alpha Male frame of mind. If whatever you are feeling is stronger than whatever she is feeling, she will begin to feel what you are feeling, whatever it is.
TO MAINTAIN INTEREST
Alternate between different vibes: dominant, demonstrating deep understanding, being funny and playful, revealing what you are really thinking and feeling in the moment(authentic)
DEMONSTRATING AUTHORITY IN HER WORLD
Showing that you deeply understand something or can read her. This creates fascination, a great conductive medium across which you can throw anything and get strong responses!
RANDOM SHIT
Hey can you do me a favor? Can you smile for me? It looks good on you.
Micro Escalation -
Tounge-In-Cheek-Romanticism - to fulfill fantasies while maintaining safety.
Use nonverbal compliments to keep her guessing.
During a conversation, if its boring, just say "What? Sorry I wasn't listening." Once she continues do it again. (Be sure to do it in a playful manner.) Once she starts again, "Shut up." (Laugh)
PUA: So what do you want to do?
HB: I want to be an archatect.
PUA: An archatect? What's the point? Why don't you just quit and become a stripper?
(This is a clever deviation from the common responses women are used to getting. It will make you interesting.)
Wrong name introduction - When you introduce her to your friends, if her name is Michelle, say "Come meet Angela from pussy.com"
Give 1 evasive response that builds attraction and intrigue and then 1 honest response that builds connection and trust.
Boring verbal mixed with kino and nonverbal.
(be having boring converation and while you kino for a good effect)
QUICK THINKING EXCERCISE
One word impro
impro roleplay
free assc.
Notice 5 things about everyone you see. (What is fav piece of clothing, music style, where r dey going, where do they live, rich or poor, ect.)
RAPPORT AND COMFORT BUILDING CONVERSATION (Questions game questions)
Night out or night in?
What was your first job?
Are your friends mostly men or women?
What do you want to do that you have never done?
What is the one thing you can't say no to?
Do you make a good gf?
What are your three best qualities?
Are you still friends with your exes?
How successful are you at meeting great guys?
What talents do you have that would surprise me?
What was the first time you had sexual thoughts towards another person?
Have you been in love?
Elicit passions and feedback
Elicit values and feedback
ex. What do you like to do? (fishing) oh you must like it because (i guess you like it because) it is relaxing and rewarding blah blah blah (Wow! Exactly!)
ROLLER, THROWER, OR A FOLDER?
Ask her, "are you a roller, a folder or a thrower?" she says, "what do you mean?" "So lets say we're on vacation, we have our suitcases open, I'm going to take you to the most-anywhere you wanna go-and you're packing your bag. Do you throw your clothes in, do you roll them or do you fold them?" No matter what they say, say you're something else, then add "rollers and folders don't typically get along, unless there's some kind of chemestry here." "But you know, when you do like to escape and indulge yourself and get away, what do you really love to do?" she says "I like to go *skiing*" Then say, "Really? well tell me about that." then stop her in the middle of her description. Say "wait a second. Take me there with you. So say we're in the Alps. What time did we arrive? And what's the air feel like? And are we dressed for skiing? So what do we do? Did we have something to drink before hand? So tell me, is your hot chocolate sweet or a little bitter? So I take a sip of it, do I like it?" And so on.
INNER GAME LAWS
1. Move your mental frame of refrence internal.
2. Eliminate the concept of failure.
3. Surround yourself with success models and positivity.
4. Embrace transition anxiety.
5. Balance Learning, practicing, and refining.
6. Stop idealising women.
7. Stop idealising relationships.
OPENER
Are you confident enough to accept a sincere compliment? Good so am I, you go first.
Can you help me find Starbucks? Actually, I really don't care about starbucks. I just thought you were cute and wanted an excuse to come and talk to you.
Excuse me, I literally just saw you and thought you were adorable, and I would kick myself if I didn't say something to you. I'm Ryan.
How tall are you?
What's your first impression of *piece of peacocked clothing*?
Have you ever seen the movie *Movie name*? Do you think it's based on reality or on fiction?
TEXT/ONLINE OPENERS
Tell me something...(like what?)Something interesting/worth hearing...(why?) Because I want to hear something interesting from you. Unless you're just another pretty face in the crowd (that has nothing to say?)
What's a girl like yourself into on a (Saturday) night?
I just saw somthing that reminded me of you
Try reading this without smiling
What sort of trouble are you causing?
Try reading this without thinking of me and smiling
Georgeous, charming, witty, funny, kind, sweet, lovable...well enough about ME. How are you?
Stop! (Stop what?) Thinking about me and smiling.
So how are you? I have a rediculous story that happened to me the other night.
AFFIRMATIONS
I am friendly
I am fun loving
I am approachable
I am interesting
I am clever
I am a leader
I am challenging
I am a success in all I do
I can attract any woman I want
I know my purpose
I am confident about who I am
I am an attractive man
I have a powerful reality
I am calm, cool and collected
I am high status
I am the Alpha Male of Any Group
The sun revolves around me
I look like someone who gets laid
I know my purpose
All women want me.
She is hot. Okay, but what else does she have going for her?
I'm a super cool guy. Can she see that or is she too stupid?
I'm the fun sociable guy.
I talk to everyone.
If I have a nice interaction with a girl, closing is natural.
If you think you can't do something, you're absolutely right. But if you think you can...if you truly believe you can, the possiblities are endless.
HOW TO TRAIN YOURSELF TO HAVE AN INSTANT POSITIVE STATE
Listen to music that gets you pumped
Affirmations
Body movements (clasp fingers)
MISC. TECHNIQUES
If she sneezes and then says "excuse me" say, "oh no, don't apologize. in a lot of cultures sneezing is a REAL sign of respect. so thank you, i appriciate it."
Lead the Women!
Compliment Response: I know. Please try and control yourself.
HER: I like your hair.
ME: Of course you do. You're only human.
Do not approval seek!
Well I thought I was being funny and cute...but I guess I was just being cute.
What's the color of the fridge? What do cows drink?
%100 ESCALATION + %10 VERBAL = SAFETY
INTERMEDIATE MISSIONS
1. Try and isolate every girl you open for a month
2. Try and kiss every girl you open for a month
3. Try and change venue for a month
4. Number close for a month
LIMOUSINE EYELASHES ROUTINE
Daydream delusion
Limousine eyelash
oh baby your face
drop a tear in my wineglass
look at those big eyes
see what they mean to me
i am a delluded angel
I am a fantasy parade
I want you to know what I think
Don't want you to guess anymore
You have no idea where I came from
We have no idea where we're going
launched in life
like branches in a river
flowing downstream
caught in the current
I'll carry you
You'll carry me
That's how it could be
Don't you know me
Don't you know me by now
NEGS
Eye crusties
You spit on me
Lint
Are those nails real? Oh well they're pretty anyway
Lipstick on teeth
Your skin is so soft! You feel like a slug!
Oh my god she's so grabby/demanding! How do you roll with her?
In some countries they would spank you for that.
OMG how does your boyfriend put up with you?
(I don't have a bf.)
Oh, well that's probably for the better.
I am so out of your league.
You have man hands.
I love this little flirting thing we have going back and forth its really endearing.
NLP PATTERN
Are you decisive? Do you know what you want when it is right in front of you? (Self Point) Imagine what it would be like to get it, and then go for it without hesitation, or do you just let opportunities slip away? (Lean back)
NLP CURE FOR APPROACH ANXIETY
Picture yourself doing a pickup or somthing that gives you anxiety. Watch it in your head. Do you feel good at the end even though it went bad? Now watch it from a movie perspective. Now watch it backwards. Now watch it from your perspective backwards fast motion. Now from movie perspective fast motion. Now slow it down. Now watch it again from your perspective. Anxiety gone?
THE 5 QUESTIONS GAME
Im going to ask you 5 questions and you cant answer them honestly.
What city are you in?
What color shirt are you wearing?
What country are you in?
Now what question am I on?
Oh. You win. You've played this before havent you?
INETERNAL INTERRUPT
If a girl is being pulled away by her friend in a 2-set
"Hey knucklehead, shows over here thank you very much. Oh my god where's her off button?"
"By the way I've noticed something about you I'll tell you about that in one moment. But before I do may I finish what we were talking about?"
THE SAW ROUTINE
OPEN
Hey are you friendly?
(Haha yes I am
) (yeah why?)
Ok lol just checking to see if you had a great personality to go along with that pretty face.
(aww thanks
)
No problem. So tell me a little about yourself.
(idk what do you wanna know?)
MIDGAME
Well wait I have an idea. Let's play a game.
(Ok lol)
It's called the questions game. Ever heard of it?
(yeah plenty of times)
Well my versions a little different. There's 3 rules #1 no whats your favorite color bullshit. #2 you can't ask the same question as me and #3 you go first!
(Haha I don't like rule number 3, but....) and the game begins.
CLOSE
At the peak of interaction, once the hook point is reached:
Hey I have to get off here, but we can finish this through text if you'd like.
(okay, XXX-XXX-XXXX)
Alright later!
THE 4 VIBES YOU WANT TO THROW ACROSS
1. Commanding/strong
2. Fun/playful
3. Demonstrating that you deeply understand her world and are curious about her in a stimulating way
4.
CHAT
