i been seeing this girl for over a month ,and we hit it off really well!
shes all about me drops mad money on me and loves my company!
with out getting to detail about the sex i make things happen to her that she claims never have before
so i may have gotten drunk with her last night and asked her to be exclusive.... shit idk how bad i am on damage control here?

her: that's like basically bf and gf

me: no its just not sleeping with other ppl

her: says something i don't remember

other things were said blah blah woke up play'ed it cool didn't bring it up

so i today i took her on a hike and and she says i am sorry i was a bitch to you last night

i was like its no a big deal and dropped the convo i felt like she was trying to say lets talk about it again

i waited till after i left my load in her and asked a little while after one more time

says the same thing and i am getting the feeling that she wants to be my gf now instead of just exclusive

right before she leaves she tells me she cant find her underwear some where in my room i tell her in a obviously joking manner "don't worry no other girl will find them cuzz were exclusive" she giggles and smiles.

she told me she really likes me and wants to see me all the time blah blah i told her i feel the same way

i wont see her till new years and well prob spend 3days together like we normally do, this week was 5days we live in different city's she comes here i go there....

she texts me after 5 hours texts i am still smiling:)

i texted her back with a toco bell sauce i took a pic of that she gave to me that read your my soul mate

she loves it

now my question is do you think i fucked up and should i just leave it alone and not bring it up anymore?

I don't see the problem - you want to be exclusive (evidenced by the soul mate pic you sent when you were sober) and you proposed it to her and she seems to have agreed. So you're now exclusive with this girl it would seem. Enjoy.

see there is a gray area while see gives me a small run round about it and its not quite officially said at all


also you don't that its to soon to ask?

and that its not the same as being bf and gf?

its not like changing facebook relation ship status and the holo gram of obi one shows up and says i just herd 1000 voices of women cry out in sadness all at the same time

Too soon or not too soon is subjective, it's up to each individual.

Exclusive without being b/f g/f, so you can make out with other girls but not have sex with them. Seems confusing.

Many times if a girl keeps seeing you like this she wants to be your g/f, not every time.

It's ambiguous right now because the two of you left it ambiguous. I'm not a huge fan of labels myself.

The label means NOTHING, the temptation to toss all your cards on the table only a month in says a lot!
Exercise caution.

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i have been seeing this one lady for about 2 months now.
i see her as gf candidate number one out of all i girls i have met (alot).

i was in the game to sleep with as many bitches AS i could a new one every night witch was cool
but i lost myself i stopped hanging out with friends stopped my hobby's. one girl in my life would be nice

i often think shes a cop theirs to much we have in common wireds me out
yes i would like to move in to a real relationship i was trying not make it look like i wasn't moving to fast

she invited me out of nowhere to come see her the day before xmas eve into exmas eve till we had to part ways on the train and the bus station to go back to our family's for the holiday. she paid for everything,and normally i am not a fan of being told what to do she had told me what train i was getting on and paid for it did all the heavy lifting i didn't have to make the plans everything went smoothly.

i did not bring up being exclusive at all

i am going to up to see and stay with her for 3-4 days for new years i am still dabbling with the idea of asking her to be my gf. its risky could pay off or not. she told next time i have to bring a nice button down shirt and i cant where my hat and have to where nice shoes she told me shes taking me somewhere fancy

i could finally stop talking all my booty calls and would have no thought about it

i have never moved so fast before i was worried she would run from commitment