So here's my situation:

>flirting with multiple HBs around new workplace

>two of them in particular show lots of IOIs

>One of them (the hotter one) calls me, invites me out with them

>I go out and try to swing a three way but fail, the hotter one does not want any part of it

>I fuck the less attractive one (about an HB 6.5), because I figure--or the alcohol figured--something is better than nothing (btw guys this is a huge mistake, LEARN FROM MY FUMBLES DO NOT FUCK CHICKS YOU ARE NOT INTO)

>she goes to bed, my bro calls me to go to this house party that's been going on all night

>I go and don't say anything to her when I leave, never wanna have relations with this chick again

>she texts me everyday since that night, giving signs of wanting sustained contact, further hook ups, and possibly *a relationship*

>she's a nice person but I don't want to keep this going.

So here are the two issues I'm concerned with:

1. I don't want her to get hurt

2. I don't want to DLV by having everyone know I hooked up with an unattractive chick, especially since I still kinda wanna fuck her friend

I realize fucking her friend may not be a possibility anymore (which is fine, there are plenty of other chicks in the world), but at least help me with the first part and with minimizing the DLV, I've never had to do anything like this before.

Thanks guys. And those of you looking for a lesson, here it is: DO NOT LET ALCOHOL MAKE DECISIONS FOR YOU.

Always go for the hottest chick.

As for the other girl, just be nice and say, "Look youre an awesome person but i think it would be better if we just stay friends. I have a policy of not getting serious with work colleagues. Hope we can still be friends, I think youre a cool person"