It came to my attention today that some people get really upset when they hear what they don't want to hear. If you post something and ask for advice, either take the advice or don't. It's okay to challenge or ask more questions, but what's the point in fighting with people who are trying to help?

Also, I don't want to speak for everyone else, but for me, pick-up isn't about dehumanizing or demoralizing women. This isn't about getting revenge on women because they didn't show you attention. You can't go around hating 50% of the population. If you have a general disdain for women, maybe pick-up isn't for you.

To me, it's about making a connection with another human being. Even if it's brief and even if it's just for fun. I've had many cathartic conversations with the women I've had sex with and it's been nice to see what makes them tick and to share something of myself with them.

I know everyone takes something different from pick-up and if you're in it for the sex, no problem! I am just sick in general of hearing people bitch about how terrible women are. You're probably the problem and hating women will only make you LESS attractive.

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I think everyone has "grudge fucked" a chick at one time or another.

Good post