Just a bit of friendly advice

I've spent the last seven months trying to game this girl... Anyone who reads this forum alot might notice that all of my posts here have been to get advice on her. Now finally im here to post some of my own. It all ended this morning after she said we shouldn't be friends. 

I started quite sexual / heavy kino, which she was quite receptive to. I thought it was on.

Shes a very emotional girl, and I had to re-friend her a few times after saying some fairly insensitive things.. Definitely overreaction on her part though.

Kino stopped for a bit but I went back on it a few months later. I tried to go in for the kiss once but got rejected. Handled it well though and she actually showed some real interest in the following weeks. I ended up spending the night in her bed but I still didn't close because of the rejection earlier. Probably a dumb move on my part but whatever the fuck.

She used to send me cute things like pictures of our dates together and asked me questions like "do you miss me?".. So honestly I still thought it was on. She would also sometimes initiate kino by linking fingers (after I grabbed her hand). "You want to hold my hand, then hold it properly".

I call her up yesterday to arrange a meet up and she starts banging on about some bloke who she went on a date with and how her heart is hurting to which I straight out said "Its hard for me to listen to this as I'm not the guy you talk about this stuff with".. She hung up the phone (not the first time she's done that) and sent me a message saying stuff like "friends are supposed to be there for one another etc"

To which I replied something along the lines of "I'm a kind person who is happy to help friends out but you're going to need to make it clear that we are just friends and stop sending me mixed signals". She acted like she didn't know what I was talking about so I gave her some examples and she said "I don't really need your interpretations as I've always considered you as a friend and its weird that you're telling me this now. I don't really think we can be friends."

I replied "I can't say I'm not disappointed but if you say so.." 

And that was the end.

I'm posting this story to emphasise that there are girls that will throw signals at you that aren't really all that interested. They tend to be the ones with lots of guy friends lusting after them and therefore they believe that what is flirting is just guys being good friends.

It seems they do it either on purpose for validation or because they genuinely don't understand the difference between flirting and being friends.

I guess the point is that with these girls with lots of guy friends, you need to make it abundantly clear to them (verbally, and in so many words) that you are interested in them for sex. Heavy kino doesn't always cut it..

I would strongly recommend that if anyone is gaming a girl with lots of guy friends, they should assess their situation after having listened to the "The Friend Zone" podcast by simple pickup. You may be in the friend zone and not know it. As for getting out of it, there are lots of posts about that. 

As for what I did (calling her out on her flirting), that probably wasn't the best move. I was cornered though, and I had to explain what I said to her about not being the guy she talks to about other guys. She would have stopped talking to me anyway.

Wow I just read that and it sounds so afc. Tittysprinkles.