So, today I made my first e-mail adress close in a chatroom.

I´m new with the whole internet dating thing but there "seems" to be a lot of attractive chicks out there so I´m trying to learn + it´s great PUA practice.....

anyway, what I use as an opener an that 99% of the girls respond to is;

alex: "You´re probably really fat.....",

usual response, HB:"why do you think that", went on with, alex: "Well, you´re probably booring to, I bet you would be really booring to chat with/ I bet you couldn´t entertain me at all.....", HB:"blablabla.....(I want to make sure you understand how great I am......)blabla", alex: well...., I doubt it but since you seem so keen on entertaing me, i´ll let you try......",

followd up by some lame questions by me, alex "what do you do blblablala....", HB: "blblbabla", alex:"cool, blblbabla...(approval)", alex" I, gotta go, you´re nice, you got e-mail, so we can talk again" an a @ close.

the conversation, 3-5 minuites tops

The conversation went out in Finnish so translation mayby crappy, but..... An the first opener is great!

anybody else have any chatroom/ online experience, keen to know because i want to RULE the internet (an all the hot chicks there)!!!

btw. when do you suggest i contact her, two days rule?

noticed an interresting thing today on online chat, when i went overboard with beeing cocky, when saying: "okay, chill, maybe we got off on the wrong side, *casual question*", the response was quite good...

do you think saying that is the same as saying "sorry, blblablaa" wich I would never resort to, (unless its somebody I already know)......

do I come off as a wuss when I say that....

btw. I know it seems stupid getting all happy about getting an e-mail adress online, but without the material I checked I would never have got it..... online is just a new an exciting playground, anybody know what I mean?

thinking it´ll mayby work in real life too, cause I often tend to go over with the cocky an just seem arrogant? then again mayby I just have to learn not to get in that situation att all.....

apolagizing sucks!!! why can´t everybody just understand me?

Hi Alex, I like to test my skills online , also looking for hints on how my game is working with girls online , but I only use this as a practice, the experience you can get is out there in the streets . Try going today out to a bar (any place where u can find many 8 - 9 ) and try some openers and work on ur cocky & funny , and see how they react , and if everything goes right get the email of a girl . Calm down a bit , take it easy , try to go to chat rooms and use the same opener ("You´re probably really fat.....", ) but then dont go to the ask question , try telling an opinion opener (like who lies more men or women).... And remember your a busy man , spend only 10 - 30 min talking to the girl , and then tell I have to go I have an important meeting... Talk to you later .

The next time you see her try start chatting and say something like (I'm talking to my friend (name) in the phone and he is asking me what he should do with his girlfriend (make up a story that involves her helping you solving ur firends problem) then when she tells you her opinion and then say I have to go (anywhere ) to meet my friend , but why dont you give me your # so i can call you later.

Hope this works for you man...


Sorry for my english i'm latin

Dude, girls may not take C&F as something good online since you're deprived of body language, tonality and well, she'll have lots of others to talk to if you end up being a real f*cked up jerk. The thing with online chats, you gotta be FUNNY, just as Xfman said. Be Funny. Then when you're out, you can start being a bit jerk-ish. Don't apologize but make sure that you're C&F isn't pushing too hard if you're getting to a point where she's already screwing you.

Goodluck.

Yeah, in my experience using C&F online can sometimes backfire. I normally adjust myself in real life as I can see how balanced the girl is. If I fire out some cocky and funny and she doesn't really understand, I can put on a smirky face, lean towards the funny and let her see I'm not being a dick. If another girl has no problems in understanding when I'm being C&F then I can push it further and hold back the smirky face for longer.

This is an important factor which can't really be done on the internet as you can't read the person. Facial expression is probably the biggest element in play here, reading her expression and adjusting your own accordingly.