Hey guys!

Allthough this is my first post, I'm not new in the game (9years,5 of them in LTR though)
Just letting you guys know english is not my native language

This is not an action-repport so I'll keep the story short/er and get to my issue.

Facts good to know:
* She has a boyfriend she lives with
* I have a girlfriend I live with
* Her boyfriend is gone for some days


What has happened?
A college I have been working with for too years gets in to my brain and I get oneitis (3 months ago)

I knew she was kind of into me so I go on a mission to get a F-close


All went well (4 "dates" in two weeks)
Date 1 - cuddle , interupted by BF calling

Date 2 - my place - K-close
Date 3 - her place - F-close
Date 4 -her place - F -close

The closes where solid, and there was no B-remorse



Sidestory:
She has one other guy that also is on a F-close mission.
She has told me she is not doing him (dosnt matter if it is true or not, only what she tells me matters in my opinion)
Not sure if he is super AFC or she had friendzoned him in a weird way...

My issue:

Between our F-close dates she meet up with him at her place, dinner and wine...
(Found her pyjamas the day after, on a workingday.. She fell alseep with those on, so either he slept over and no F-close , coz with me she sleeps naked or panties only or he left early..dosn't matter)

So the day after we start to chat

She send me this awesome poem about me being a bad boy, but good for her , and she being a good girl, bad only for me..

So I respond with a compliment, something about that being us and maybe thats why I want to be at her place right there and now (but cant coz Im home with my own GF)

Then all of the sudden she says:
-"that other guy" is coming over now

<this is where I go full-tilt All-in AFC>

So I try to keep it cool by saying , Me: "replacment nr 2?"

She says no, Im not sleeping with him
<This is where I should stop asking, but I dont>

-me: allright just let me know if that changes, so I dont get a chock in the mail från some dick-doctor
(Yes you read it right... Im trying to find out if she Wants to sleep with him, and he just suck at escalating)

She:
Like I said.. Im not sleeping with him. He is not coming over anyway so, he is to tierd (my guess is that he dosnt believe in F-close) so Ill meet up with him next week..

Me: oh but you will, just depends in wich phase you're in
A letter from dick-doctor is gonna be a pain to explain to GF

She dosnt give attention to that.. We start to joke a little, banter..

And then... I drop another last final tilt AFC bomb

4 fucking SMS in short saying:
- why did you mention himcoming over? i never got that..

- in my opinion you said it for one of too reasons: provoce, or just bad timing..

Dont like either one.. No biggie.. But still.. Allright good night missy



The thing is that she never responded(maybe she thought it was going to be more drama than I was planing for)...

Im not sure what my next step should be, because I've allready closed this, but being a oneitis it didn't really make things better by closing..

For now I'm ignoring her (still in a friendly way, so she wont think I'm angry or anything.. More like "I got kinda bored, or something". (It has been 12 since the "no respond")



Conclution:

This is totalt an Innergame thing, I realize this now as I'm writing this..

But I still would love to hear from you guys what you think, or just tell me is I need to explain something further..