Alright, I've had this friend who I think some time ago she was into me but I didn't care neighter did I pay attention to it too much because her face is a 6.5-7 but her body is a 10.

So we became quite good friends and when we both talk to each other via instant messenger I tend to play with her. Playing as in I talk about sex with her, and she responds and talks about personal stuff with me about such topics as sex and what she wants in a boyfriend (I don't find myself too much in that place), I talk about what girl I wanna get... then I start talking dirty-clean to her. I'm not using foul words but I imply foul ideas openly without stress. I speak in metaphores which imply sex or getting together and she either laughs or says I'm crazy.... fluff talk mostly.

But usually when I talk like that to her she doesn't mind too much, and she engages such conversations aswell, but one time that I implied to her that she comes to my place she said some crap like she's busy or stuff like that, RARELY saying something about her boyfriend...

So, after a couple of slight refusals from her I abandoned the game with her. She's my ex-class mate and we used to skipp classes together or cheat when we could at anything. I'm 19 she's 19 aswell, closing on 20.

So, my point is, anybody has any ideas on how to turn this thing into a friend with benefits situation?

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─ Thaz

Start going after other girls. She'll get jealous, she'll become more attracted to you, then you can let het know youre attracted to her as well but you're not looking for anything serious. Then try go overcome the number one thing that would stop her from wanting to be your fuck buddy...the fear of being a slut.

Make her feel like it's perfectly natural for friends of the opposite sex to fool around. Make sure yu aren't pushy or needy

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