I don't know if I want to call this a one-itis or a crush, becasue this is a little different. I'm not talking about a situation where you are obsessed with someone and afraid of them, type of neediness. I'm talking about a hunger....a firey desire....a determination. If you felt like you needed to have a girl, what would you do to get her. What would you do?

what the fuck. Why are these dumbass questions allowed in the PUA lounge all of a sudden.

How bout you grow a fucking sack and tell her you want to fuck. if she giggles and rolls with it, fuck her. if not, move the fuck on.

You are infatuated with a random chick. pay some fucking attention.

#1 Before I reply. Watch your mouth. Its easy to be tough over the internet. And I am really sick of internet alpha males. You sound insecure, to tell you the truth.

#2 This is a great question. It is a great question because guys in the PUA Lounge are always promoting a "I dont give a fuck attitude." When you like a girl you give a fuck. You give a fuck. You want to succeed. You NEED to succeed. You feel me? Now my question for you and every other PUA is what would you do if you needed to succeed...if failure was not an option. Because I believe a man reveals himself, his true colors when the pressure is on. When you need something the most you cut the bull shit and do what works? And you do what works best!

#3 When most guys are said to be needy its more that they need to be liked and do not have "balls" because they are too afraid to be disliked to take action. When you need to succeed...you'll do anything...you'll risk anything....you already have balls. Think first before you start assuming again.

so its pressure? talk to alot of girls, practice on alot of random girls, find out what works for most chicks.

remember its usually not what you say, its how you say it that counts.

at the last day of school before winter break, everyone talks deepshit with their poem thats 2 full pages long,

all i had was 2 flashcards thats just simple grammar and took less than 10 minutes to write but what i did was JUMP ON DESK TO DESKS AND SCREAM AND WALK AROUND CLASS AND FLIP A DESK OVER!

Everyone cheered and I know everyone will cheer cuz i know its not what you say, its how you say it that counts when you present something to someone, PUA taught me this.

and if she doesnt want you after the HIGH ENERGY and how FUN and AWESOME you are then she truly is NOT worth it.

KEEP PRACTICING TALKING TO RANDOM GIRLS PICKUP UP CHICKS IF SHE DOESNT WANT YOU THEN YOU CAN CONNECT WITH THE RANDOM GIRLS YOU PRACTICED WITH.

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It's a pretty vague question. If I felt like I needed to get the specific girl?
As in if I would take a shot in the leg to be with her?
Or as in if I would move to a different country to be with her?

If I had to, I would definitely do a lot.

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alright bro, heres why you come off as a total afc and why i was so angry to read this. First off, this is the most broad question you could possibly ask. You google that shit and you'll get books for your answer.

If you have game, apply it. If you have a specific question on your situation i recommend the general questions section.

If you don't have game, read a book. If you don't know what book, ask about it in the general questions section.

If your worry is about you being to clingy, make sure you have other girls in your life that you can fall back on. Also, guys on here say don't care, because not caring (or at least showing that) is whats attractive. Girls want a challenge, they want you to care. Thats the GAME. Also, ask this in the general questions section.

The PUA lounge is for guys who already have some level of experience and are sharing different ideas and concepts, not asking "general questions".

And don't call me an internet alpha dude. you make a post like that in this section, and thats the exact response your going to get.

This is not a general question, nor is it a beginners question. The question is if you really wanted a girl what would you do to get her? I am not asking you what your game would be in general. I am asking you what your A-game would be. Only someone that is an experienced PUA could answer this question because they would have the experience of knowing what techniques work some times and what techniques work all the time, what techniques are like MJ in a game six...clutch. I called you insecure because I don't think you have an answer to this question and are afraid to admit that

I am aware that girls want a challenge, because when they get you they feel like they have accomplished something. I understand this. That's a powerful feeling.

But, if you wanted a girl and this is putting her on a pedestal a bit i know...but if you wanted a girl. It was an objective to get her what would you do? If you had a crush on her or if you were infatuated with her what would you do to get her?

I don't think its AFC to have a crush on a girl or to be infautated with her because I don't think having a crush is the same things as being clingy.

I was pretty into chick once. I had tried and failed to get her particularly interested on three occasions. So I decided I needed to get serious. I knew who a few of her friends were. I nabbed every one of them over the course of about a week and got all but one to like me. And while I was getting to know them, I made sure to learn a bit about her as well. I found out she was really into a semi-local band. And I know the bass player. SO I checked into where they'd be playing soon and then I started corralling all of her friends into going as a big event. And of course got her to go too. It's an all girl band, so no risk of losing her to the band. And if I did, well that would just a different kind of awesome
And I contacted the girl from the band and told her to expect me. Told her exactly what my plan was with the girl. She's cool and promised to help me out (woot!). And so we went and I waited for an opportune moment, pulled my girl with me and told her I wanted to introduce her. She was crazy excited and wanted to talk to me all night and we ended up making out, though sex somehow did not happen that night(but it did later!).

So that's what I did. Probably put a minimum of ten hours into all that just in foot work. Planning was close to double.

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Now thats what I am talking about! A go getter!

Thanks man. That's some solid information. I will be sure to keep it in mind going forward.

Since you can't seem to understand that this is in fact a "general question," i will simply drop that and see what i can do here to help you out. future reference however, if you are asking a question about a specific situation, it generally belongs in the general questions section.

Anyway, you are asking what to do if there is a girl you have a crush on or, in you words, a girl you "need". To this, i'm going to ask if, have you read any books on game, female psychology, body language, or anything pertaining to the knowledge most puas have?

If not, i would certainly recommend reading one, and learning what this is all about. If you have however, here is what i believe you should do...

Game her the same as any other chick. however, you have to remember aspects that make you successful in other situations, and a big one is that in other situations, you are less outcome dependent. you have to be the same way here. Contradictory as all hell, but you have to let go of the possibility that she might not want you back.

That is what i find to be the main problem with guys who have game but want only one girl. they forget not to care. If you do want her this will obviously be difficult, but you must become detached from the outcome.

I find people only come to the forum with questions when they either haven't read enough, or they have read, but they just don't realize they have the answer. figure out which one you are. that should help.

And you don't get banned for cussing board members out with the Fword?

1.) This is not about a specific situation as I do not include any specific real life information.

2.) This is only a question that an experience PUA can answer

3.) This only information that an experience PUA could apply.

4.) I have read countless books on Seduction

5.) I think its nonsense to act like you don't like a girl who knows you like her. That goes to show that style of game will not work in this situation and I feel that is why you are so defensive with answering my question.

Yo dude get the fuck over yourself. If you don't have any advice to give dont even reply.

As to the OP! Bro! just go with the flow. Dont think too much of it. just hit her up more often and see if shes down to kick it!

Q: "But I don't have one-itis - my situation is different."

A: It's one-itis. Get over it.

There is only one reason why people will tell you that it sounds like one-itis, even though you have clarified in the beginning that "I assure you...it is not..."

The simple fact of the matter is that this forum, this *seduction* forum, has NO SPECIFIC ADVICE on landing "that one girl" - it is IMPOSSIBLE for the people here giving and asking advice to pinpoint exactly what makes this one girl "friend" of yours tick, so it would be impossible to say with certainty what to do to get her. [Formhandle: And, if it were possible for you to provide detailed information about her, what her values are, what her "map of the world" or belief system is like, then you would have all you need to begin leading her to a lay in the first place and you would not be asking for this kind of advice. Which means that your problem isn't "that one girl", it's your lack of understanfing in general in being able to diagnose what's missing in your PU skills. So the answer to your question can never be how to get that one girl, it's that you need to figure out what PU and seduction skills you are lacking and start practicing and applying those missing skills on many other chicks.]

...the reason people will tell you that you need to "F**K ten other women" is still valid, because you will not know what you have to do with her until you have the skills to FTOW. It is that simple, and that is the only advice the best PUA's can give.

~Sandstorm, mASF, 2002/02/28

Here's an analogy:

You're a lousy baseball player and somehow managed to get yourself signed up as a rookie hitter in some major league team. So in your first few games, you go up to swing the bat at pitches from a typical major league pitcher. He's nothing special, he just happens to be worthy to be on a major league team. You keep striking out because, well, you've so far in your life been a lousy baseball player. But it's cool to be on a major league team... and you don't want to get cut. So if you want to stay on the team, you have to learn to hit.

You go to your coach and say, "Coach, I'm hitting lousy against this one pitcher, but I want to be really good at hitting in the major leagues. Can you tell me how I can get a hit through that one pitcher?" The coach says, "Your problem isn't that one pitcher, your problem is that you're a lousy hitter and have never played in the majors. Just practice with the team and play through the season against other pitchers and by the end of the season you'll be in good form. And, who knows, you may even run up against that one pitcher at the end of the season after you've gained all your new skills and be able to get a hit off him then."

The guy who doesn't understand or accept what the coach is saying responds with, "But coach, I want to hit good against that one pitcher now! How is finishing up the season with field training and practice going to help me against that one pitcher now?"


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