Ok so i've used these forums for 1 year now, and through my time of just reading, ghosting around i've had many successful adventures, thanks to you guys, take a bow.

Now I require your help!

To summarise - before my fun time I was dating a girl at uni, she went back to america and wanted to keep things going between us, (believe me, this next bit wont gain any moral points) - during this time of her being away I tried mystery method left right and centre, after getting it all out of my 'system' and us two getting alot more serious (visiting each other more and more) she decides to move to the UK. Ok. COOL.

But during this time I start a new job, meet a new girl there, who apparantly likes me alot, I go to hers, we drink a little, she knows about my gf abroad and we end up making out after what is like our second date, on the third we have sex, and then 2 times more after that, on several occasions she tells me 'I really like you..' and always reaches out to hold my hand, kisses me randomly on the forehead and cheek and keeps looking at me and smiling at random points, its clear shes liking me alot now and its beyond the standard FWB we both agreed to at the start.

My gf from abroad is coming in 10 days, all of a sudden the girl from work stops texting as much, and at work tells me that we have to stop, but she wants to keep me as a friend, and that she doesnt want me to stop talking to her or being on that same level of banter.

Now i'm faced with a dilemma and confused, I want this girl, I cant help it, shes sexy, my gf doesnt move to me for another year and im considering getting rid of her as the distance is really killing me, but more to the fact, how the hell do I get this other girl back? :\

And yes, I accept I am essentially a scumbag.