Ive been sleeping with a new girl for a couple of weeks who lives in a hostel with me. The thing is when I see her I find it hard to show interest to her (possibly because shes with her friends all the time) for instance if shes sat on a sofa most of the time id sit somewhere else and talk to other people. she kind of does the same thing in the opposite situation. 1 day she will kiss me when she goes out others she'll go out without paying any attention to me. I think we just both want to be in control and not show neediness. As u can imagine its slightly annoying when she does it to me lol and it confuses me and im sure her aswell. Whats the best way to get her on her own more often?