1. Stop spending your time with wrong people.

2. Do not leave your problems.

3. Time to stop lying to yourself.

4. Don't let your needs wait in the last line.

5. Do not try to be someone you're not. Means: be original. Doesn't mean: If u wanna catch a girlfriend be yourself.

6. Stop living in the past.

7. Don't be afraid of making mistakes.

8. Stop blaming yourself for the mistakes from the past.

9. Do not try to buy happiness with money.

10. Leisure is not a solution.

11. Stop thinking that you are not ready.

12. Stop competing with others.

13. Stop being jealous to everything

14. Stop complaining and whining.

15. Do not let anyone else make you below their level.

16. Do not waste time justifying before others.

17. Find the beauty in small things.

18. Do not attempt to make things perfect.

19. Don't behave as if everything is okay when it's not.

20. Do not blame others for your problems.

21. Stop worrying too much.

22. Don't focus on something you do not want to happen.

23. Don't be ungrateful.

Great post man! Would you do one that is the opposite? Things to add to your life?

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"I'm not a player, I just know how to quickly and efficiently remove a woman from my life when I figure out that she isn't good for me. If everyone has a soulmate out there somewhere, then I'm on a mission to find mine"

I am assuming you mean stop beating yourself up about past failures?
I really like these types of posts. No. 20 really hit home for me years back when I was having some hard times and I think this is very important. People are alwasy blaming failures and even success on some outside factor. Until you are able to come to terms with yourself about this you will never be able to move forward in developing yourself. You cannot control anyones actions, thoughts and beliefs but your own.