But St. Valentine was on my side today and I reconnected with the most amazing girl in my life.

Honestly, my whole reason for joining the PUA community was to fill the void in my life this girl left behind when I broke her heart. It's been 4 years since I last saw her.

Anyway, I'm in for a very interesting ride in my life, we live over 1000 miles apart. But when I say this girl is my soul mate and the perfect 10 everyone is searching for, I mean it.

I'll be spending spring break with her this March and spending every night on SPAM. She is worth the wait and I know we'll be together for the long run.

I was never more sure of anything in my life. Always was ever since I met her but I was a scared kid back then and ended up hurting her. I feel so blessed she's willing to give me another chance despite what I put her through.


Anyway, thanks for all the fun stories, tips, and advice you guys have offered me this passed month and a half haha I know I haven't been a member for very long at all but you guys are pretty entertaining.

I hope your chase brings you to this feeling right here.

4 Years ago when I was 18. The first night we met.




Wish me luck, guys!

-Stylite

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Goodluck bro hope it all works out for you

Thanks! I'm sure I might still lurk the forums. Keep you guys up to date with my crazy little relationship haha

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Something happened. Need help.


I talked to her on SPAM tonight. We spent an hour just bullshitting and catching up. Right before she went to sleep she told me to text her in the morning.


I went on Facebook, and noticed she disappeared from my friends list. If I try and go to her page it says "this page is not available... it may be taken down or blah blah blah"

I told my buddy to go to her page and he can see it.


We have plans to see each other in a few weeks.

I might be totally paranoid but what the fuck...

could she be just playing a really sick game on me to get back at her for breaking her heart?


I need a drink.

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Stop thinking. Most relationships die because someone over thinks, accusations start flying around, things that you don't mean get out, and the hate and blah blah blah.

STOP. STOP THINKING.

I say good luck. But frankly I don't think Long distance works.

hahaha Well I feel like a total fucking idiot.

I just got played harder than I ever did before.

Turns out she was just leading me on to crush me down. I can't believe it. I let my fucking guard down to her and took everything she was telling me as the truth. I talked to her on the phone for hours and thought I genuinely helped her out of a "mental breakdown." We SPAM and she was all smiles and love and told me she "wanted to be an actress (hint)"

Then the bitch blocked me on Facebook. Wouldn't return my texts, and gave me the "fuck you" button if I called.

I know exactly why she did this to me. I had thought she'd forgiven me for breaking her heart years ago and wanted things to get back to normal, in reality she was just setting me up for such a huge fall that my heart still hearts thinking about it. I don't even know what the fuck to believe anymore and how much of what she told me was true and what was just an elegant lie. Part of me wants to do something crazy and drive down to TX (24 hour drive) to confront her and get closure, part of me thinks I should try and suck it up and deal with it which hurts so fucking bad.

I know she had her own place in Austin and I even knew where she worked, by our recent conversation she told me that she had moved back home to Dallas and started a new job there. If I do act on going there, I'd have to check in Dallas and then check Austin if she lied about moving back to Dallas.

I can't be crazy. This is THE ONE. I've dated and fucked a lot of fucking girls and no one got me like her or made me feel the way she did. I broke her down so bad that she became a monster herself. What do you think, guys?

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I think you're fucked. Bitches be trippin. Move on. I feel your pain brother. Get involved in some positive stuff that will occupy your time and thoughts. Don't start destroying yourself because of some vagina with legs. Have that attitude and it won't hurt so much. It's good to be a little callused.

you cant be serious? Is this a troll?? if so 9/10

If you are actually being serious... And I pray to god that this is not real. You need some help. You seem extremely emotionally unstable.

Go see a shrink.



man up. you clearly have no game - hey thats not a bad thing, there's definitely room to improve. Its time to work on yourself for a while, and get your head straight, before you even consider thinking about seeing girls.

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Cool man, sweet advice, thanks.

I DO know game but my relationship with her was way past game.

I was in a 2 year LTR with her which was working out fine until I lost my job at the time and couldn't see her as much anymore (LTRs aren't really that hard when you have the means to see them every week.)

After a couple months of not being physically with her, I cheated. Which fucked me up because I felt terrible about it and we broke up. She got addicted to pain meds and gave up on all her friends and family, moved out to Austin to live on her own and hasn't been in a real relationship since (as far as I know)

I felt like shit, slipped into some bad habits myself and moved to NYC where my life crumbled down in front of my eyes. Moved back to NJ a while ago and started going back to school. We'd try and talk a little bit here and there but this last week we really hit it off again (as far as I knew) and spent a couple days on the phone for hours and Skyping and making plans to see each other in March.

I thought she legitimately got over what happened but apparently she was just setting me up for some revenge I guess. I'm not emotionally unstable, I just found one girl that "gets me" and was perfect for me. Had every quality I ever wanted in a girl. That's not crazy. She set the bench mark so high for any of my future relationships that in a couple years of gaming I have yet to meet a single girl that meets that standard.

-Stylite

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im sorry i was obsurd in my reply, i honestly thought this was someone from puahate just posting pictures up and making up a story... its a sucky situation you've gotten yourself in, wish you luck

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Seems like a lost cause but my heart won't let me let go (I know, that's a pretty "gay" thing to say)


Well either way I'm taking a road trip for spring break and my buddy and I might end up in Austin for the SXSW Festival. Who knows what'll happen.

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