So one of the better parts of the PUA lifestyle is all the sex, am I right? For some of you, this is not a problem. Unfortunately, for those of us out there like myself, fucking is just not something I am good at. Yes, I go down on the ladies. I know the ins and outs of a vulva. I think I know how to gauge whether a woman likes direct pressure on her clit, or, if she has a sensitive clit, would prefer it if I licked her hood.

I also hear that the best thing to do to a gal is to fuck her profligately. That is GAME. THAT is where my real troubles are. I AM a bad lay. I don't last long, at all. I've started working on my PC muscle and am about 3 weeks into exercises. I haven't been doing the exercises religiously, but I'm sure my PC now is a lot stronger than it was 3 weeks ago. And it'll be even stronger 3 weeks from now. But is this the holy grail to fucking like a sex god? How do I fuck a girl for 4 hours and blow her mind with orgasm after orgasm?

I know, the breadth of this topic spans the entire light spectrum. For brevity, to spare you the Carpel Tunnel, or to not kiss and tell even, you can just point me in the right direction. What literature is the must read to fucking like a sensual porn star who can shatter her planet? If you are going to author a response with the answers I crave, however, you need not speak in vaguely. I need specifics. Details. Explicit instructions. Please don't leave it up to me, the anti stud, to figure this out on my own.

Thank you, sincerely, in advance,

Swami

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Ok you have some misconceptions. Not ll girls want to be fucked all rambo stryle. Very few want to be fucked for four hours, that borders on tantric weird. Some girls will like varying pressure on their clit, and as you get better at game you will find more and more of the girls you hook up with don't like oral with you because its too intimate.

The main thing you need to be able to do is to control your orgasm. So to me thats pacing myself and varying the pace so I can hold my shit together until I have my rhythm and then I can cum when I want.

The PC exercises are a good start, also learning how to back off an orgasm right before you cum, via masturbation, should help a lot too.

If you can learn to control your shit in bed, all you will need is a lot of practice to become good, this normally requires a girlfriend. After all this you should be fine

The kegel exercises that you're doing to strengthen your PC muscles will help a lot, but there's something else that you might be forgetting.

Sex is an art that probably has as much or more potential for artistic variety than seduction. You can play to your strengths and create your own work that completely blows a woman's mind and body. It takes creativity but first you have to recognize where your strengths lie instead of focusing just on your weaknesses.

What are some things that you've done in bed that women have responded really positively to?

Thanks for the feedback!

The take on oral sex for a hook up is interesting. Too intimate? Yet, me sliding in and out of her vag isn't? Weird. I guess it is all about perception.

And I haven't really focused on my strengths in the sack enough to know what they are! That's another really great, insightful suggestion. I should focus on the good feedback I get. I suppose the fact that I really want a woman to give me feedback: but lots of times ladies are insecure, or apprehensive or altogether looking for Rambo to tell me what they, specifically like. I'm getting too cerebral. I just think it's time I get serious about being excellent in the bedroom. Hmmm... I guess I'll have to do some figuring out!

Thanks!

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If I go 2 weeks without sex then the next woman will feel the difference. Come to think of it ... the best lays of my life were when I had the most energy.

I let the "art" part of sex to the women. Me on the other hand I plow myself into her like no tomorrow , so it isn't the cock or the muscles that makes her cum , but the overall energy ( raw and dirty just like on animal planet )

Could you recommend some books about sex techniques ?

Sex God Method by Daniel Rose

Check out any books on the Kama Sutra. It'll teach you some pretty interesting positions that are meant to hit all sorts of pleasure spots for a woman. Pay particularl attention to material that involves spiking our 5 senses and errogenous zones.

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Pretty little girls, so used to getting your way. Along comes a man who challenges you, and suddenly you don't know what to say.

David D recommends
"How To Drive Your Woman Wild In Bed" by Masterson
and "Sexational Secrets" by Bakos

I have those on my booklist but I haven't got round to it yet.

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