Question: should i be insecure about being a virgin?

backstory: today i was chillin in the dorm room and my freind and his loud mouth ass roomate came over to pick up a backpack that was left behind. His friend is a complete asshole loudmouth alpha who gets his kicks off trying to make fun off and pick on me(seriously he's riding my dick harder than seabiscuit was ever ridden). I never back down and i always fight back FUCK BEING PICKED ON i'm too old for that bull shit. so as they leave he says something about me having no women in my bedroom and i tell him atleast i dont fuck fat girls (he does). and he says Atleast I'm not a virgin and they both start laughing. I mean i just got into the game like 3 or 4 months ago and it has drastically improved me but i still havent had sex. I understand that nothing it shouldnt be too big a deal but still i can't lie it bothered me.

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Hey dude,

1st, Forget those guys. I know you gotta see them every day, but think about this: This so-called alpha male has to settle for a bunch of fat chicks. By the end of your "transformation", you will be with the smokin hot women that he wishes he could fuck.

2nd, good job standing up for yourself. I wouldn't put up with that bullshit either... come to think of it, i'd probably chop him in the throat, but I have a short temper when people attack me directly.

3rd, No way you should be insecure about being a virgin. When you do get your first lay, that will boost your ego immensely. That's why you are here, right? You will be the alpha male with soaring confidence and a social circle that will keep you surrounded by people who think you are awesome. The bitch who's picking on you has to do that to feel secure about himself, and that does not sound like a confident person.

So don't be insecure about it. Get excited about losing virginity! Motivate yourself to learn more in PUA materials. And if this asshole thinks he's the shit, let him. He will eventually walk into your room where a gorgeous half naked girl is asleep in your bed. Don't dwell on the dream of this reality; live it.

-Ruggedized

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-You can't say overreact without saying ovary.

Ruggedized is right. Don't bother those douches. I usually don't even respond to their bullying shit. Just answers like "yeah sure..." "cool story bro" and such. He picks on you because he needs someone to boost his sucky self-esteem and as soon as you stop being reactive he will have to find someone else or hang himself. Everyone was a virgin until a point. It doesn't matter shit. You will fuck way hotter chicks than that fuckhead could ever dream off. Just keep it up!

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Fisher's got a point, you can just give him little bullshit answers like that. But if he's been getting his rocks off picking on you for a while, he might try to amog you physically when you don't react to his words in public. Bullies are funny like that.

If he tries to get in your face in a place with a lot of people, then say, "Ah..Ah! Use your words! Come on, squeeze hard. Think of something!" This will publicly humiliate him, and he will revert to "Yeah, well at least I'm not a virgin!" Think on it and get a great comeback to it, because it will pop up. Keep doing things like that publicly, and blowing him off privately and he will eventually get the message that you are not to be fucked with. Also, it will show confidence to the others around you and start getting them warm to you. Use this to your advantage!

-Ruggedized

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-A bad wingman puts the ass in assistance; a good wingman helps build the fort in comfort.
-You can't say overreact without saying ovary.