Hello there,

This is the scenario, I hooked up with a girl for like 6 months ago and we have been seeing each other ever since (seeing = being physical with all its means). No feelings, but not FB, we called it friends with benefits. Everything was great, I told my closest friends about it when they were asking, but I were never bragging, I lived the dream. Having fun with a really attractive female friend with no feelings, what could be better?

Then something happened, I moved to another city and made more new friends. I got very close to one person and he became my best friend here, one day I invited the girl and her friend up to preparty with me and my friend. I made a joke about my friend being famous, and ca-thing I saw the light in the girls eyes. I thought "oh come on you stupid bitch, really?" Me and my friend left and I told him, if X hit on you it's okay, you can take her. We went to the club, met the girls there again, here she dissed me and kissed my friend instead. Later that night he told her he wasn't famous and she got cold. Lol. I got furious that she was such a slutty bitch but I got over it. And everything got back to as it was before, I forgave her because she told me what they did.

BUT, last weekend. I had the same girls over + 2 of my old friends who I really trust(ed). Funny fact is, those guys get furious if anyone even looks at their exes. Everything went good, I THOUGHT. Untill yesterday when I opened my computer and saw a message from my friend to the girl, she had forgotten to loggout her facebook... I didn't believed my eyes, so I scrolled up and saw the rest of the convo, then logged her out, disgusted.

She had done it again, this time sleeping with what I thought were one of my best friends.

And he, "Mr I-will-kill-anybody-who-touches-my-ex" had taken my girl. He destroyed the perfect relationship, even though he knew how much i appreciated it, I have told him about how lucky I were. And then he did this.

Doing it is one thing, but behind my back? None have told me yet and I don't know what to do, I feel so fucking betrayed.

First off, I think this should go in the Relationship section. You'll get more points of view.

Secondly, note that my advice maybe isn't the best because I tend to overreact.

Anyhow, that happened to me once: a friend with benefits getting too close to a friend of mine. I basically said to myself that both can go get stuffed somewhere else, and I just went on rant on both of them just to make them feel really bad, and never talked to them again.

Note that the friend who hooked up with my FB wasn't that much of close friend. I only have very few close friends that I know won't pull that crap on me.

If he was a true friend, in my opinion, he wouldn't have pulled that on you, unless you gave him a green light. And even then, as a guy, he should know better not to go for her because he should know how betrayed you would have felt.

I hope that helps.